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  <title>148. Helping people be their best in the moments that matter - Marilyn Barrios</title>
  <description>From thinking she’d be a pediatric cardiologist to becoming a cyberspace engineer, my guest this week reminds me that life sometimes takes you in different directions. &amp;amp;nbsp; We all know that right? &amp;amp;nbsp; Marilyn Barrios was searching for more than a job. She wanted to help people, have an impact and help others be their best in the moments that matter. &amp;amp;nbsp; Turns out she was great in an early sales role. Soon technical methods, engineering solutions and solving problems were her wheelhouse. She was enthralled with those concepts. &amp;amp;nbsp; Now she's a senior leader at Motorola, but not by accident. She arrived there through many winding roads. Each time she made a change and was thinking about a new role, she asked herself how she could find something she was drawn to in that new place. &amp;amp;nbsp; She told herself: I can define that role and develop what I want it to be. Bring your strengths to the role, she reminded herself. &amp;amp;nbsp;  Be open, who knows what doors will open for you? Be prepared, but you don't have to know it all.  &amp;amp;nbsp; Do you feel fear? &amp;amp;nbsp; That means it's a stretching opportunity for growth. Your development will always feel that way. It will be a little stretch and a little fear. &amp;amp;nbsp; If you think about your life as being mission driven, it's easier to line up with the opportunities and not let fear get in your way. &amp;amp;nbsp; Marilyn had so many missed opportunities and wished she would have learned that sooner. &amp;amp;nbsp; In general, she wishes she had discovered sooner that you're not always going to be happy. You might feel crappy for a while. That's OK. &amp;amp;nbsp; Think about how long it will take you to process and give yourself that time, and then ask yourself: what can I control? &amp;amp;nbsp; You don't need to know it all. &amp;amp;nbsp; Just sit with the things that are uncomfortable and ask yourself:  What can I learn from this? What's the plan moving forward? Where will I be empowered?  &amp;amp;nbsp; Much of the time, you have a lot of control over the outcomes.&amp;amp;nbsp; Look for those opportunities.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; You don't need to know it all.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp;  More about Marilyn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/marilyn22/  And check out my bestselling book:  Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career  https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book </description>
  <author_name>Peace and Possibilities</author_name>
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