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  <title>I want to explore anal - Julia</title>
  <description>How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see. Julia takes us through confusing early fantasies to landing that first girl-kiss to realizing what it means to love people with vaginas in all their gender presentations. Now she wants to start exploring anal play. Julia is a 27-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, queer, monogamous, and she doesn’t have kids. She still gets a regular period and describes her body as tall and thin. Julia has a non-binary partner, so we get to talk about how she navigates her partner’s gender dysphoria.  Dating a non-binary partner Navigating dysmorphia Early fantasies Voyeurism and exhibitionism Queer/pansexual identity in the bedroom Losing lesbian virginity Learning what you like Butt stuff—how to start exploring anal play The Lowdown: favorite sex toys, strap-on penetration, clit stimulation, masturbation  Thank you to our sponsors for this episode:  Planned Parenthood Direct - download the app to get convenient and affordable birth control delivered to your door: http://www.ppdirect.app/api/safelink?name=inf_leahcarey_1121  To sign up for notification when it’s available in your state, go to: www.plannedparenthooddirect.org Dipsea Stories - go to www.dipseastories.com/goodgirls to get a 30-day FREE trial!  Full show notes available at: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/exploring-anal-play-julia/ &amp;amp;nbsp; Update:&amp;amp;nbsp; Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now:  Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here’s everything I’m up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack  &amp;amp;nbsp; EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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