{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"EPISODE 1256: It\u2019s Not About Them!","description":" What would you do if there was NO ONE to make responsible for you and your situation, but YOU? AND\u2026YOU BELIEVED YOU HAD THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.   What would YOU do?   \u201cW.W.Y.D.\u201d   YOU MUST OWN IT.   This is where YOU come in\u2026YOU must do\/not do it for YOURSELF.   However, you don\u2019t have to do it all by yourself.   You can invite others into your life to help you BE THE SOLUTION.   To create what you desire.   What would that look like for you?   Here\u2019s HOW.   1. Be Honest with yourself about YOU, and your HOPE, home, health, happiness.   Basically, how HARMONIOUS is your life?   What is working?   What\u2019s not working?   Get clear.   Boldly, and confidently declare your desires.   Identify your options\u2026your choices.   Make decisions.   2. OWN IT, and be OPEN to outcome, but not attached to it.   Take FULL responsibility, and ENGAGE with it.   When you OWN, you give yourself PERMISSION.   Per the mission.   Knowing our desires, and taking ACTION are more important than MAKING THEM HAPPEN.   Why?   Because when you KNOW, YOU GO. YOU GROW.   3. WORK.   EXPRESS YOUR CREATIVE ENERGY.   No longer expressing DESTRUCTIVE energy.   OWN YOUR ENERGY.   EXPRESS IT.   SEE YOURSELF AS YOU SEE YOURSELF.   Do you see yourself?   Or have you stopped seeing yourself because you\u2019re so busy looking at everyone and\/or everything that have become the reason you do NOTHING to create what you say you desire to create.   How do you see yourself?   What would it take for you to begin expressing yourself TODAY?   This is HOW\u2026   Honesty. Ownership. Work.   It\u2019s not about \u201cTHEM.\u201d   Think WE\u2026not HE, SHE, THEY, OR THEM.   \u201cWhen WE work, our DREAMS WORK.\u201d Please grab your SACRED S.O.L. D.A.T.E. JOURNAL (Daily Action To Engage yourself.)  TODAY\u2019S SACRED S.O.L. STEP IS THIS:  What would you do if there was NO ONE to make responsible for you and your situation, but you?   \u201cW.W.Y.D.\u201d   What WILL you do? You're personally invited to come over to the WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE S.O.L. MOVEMENT Closed FB Group and Join the MOVEMENT: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/WSOLMovement\/ I can't wait to meet you and engage with you even more!  Thank you for being here, and allowing me to Sip On Life with you. Request a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well \u2014 The Best-Selling 12 Engagements Of Becoming The Great Lover Of Your Life (all you'll pay for is shipping.) www.dateyourselfwell.com  I\u2019m going to be inviting listeners onto the program. If you have a story you'd like to share \u2014 a song to sing (but not a Poor Me Story) \u2014 send me an email at: drshannon@doctorshannon.com and put SHARE MY STORY in the subject line. If you've received value from the podcast, please let me know. I'd LOVE to hear from you \u2014 please email me at: drshannon@doctorshannon.com AND PLEASE TELL YOUR BESTIES AND INVITE THEM TO SIP ON LIFE WITH US. FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM @doctorshannon! See you there... And learn about an incredible opportunity for a select sacred group of 25 women who are ready and willing to RISE UP AND BE THE WOMAN. If you\u2019ve been feeling like you\u2019re stuck, overwhelmed, or perhaps you still feel like you\u2019re drowning, please don\u2019t hesitate to reach out. I\u2019d be more than happy to schedule a Discovery Call with you to see if Healing Life Coaching is a good fit for you. Email me at drshannon@doctorshannon.com Come over to the WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE S.O.L. MOVEMENT Closed FB Group and Join the MOVEMENT: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/WSOLMovement\/ By the way, if you haven't already listened\/downloaded my new song (EPISODE 291), you can also listen to it here: letsnottalkaboutex.com, and cast your vote for your favorite version.  Visit WomenSippingOnLife.com for more free resources, including my CHECKLIST FOR CHANGE, Engagement Checklist + Evaluation Rating, Six Sacred S.O.L. DATE Secrets\u2026and a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Date Yourself Well. You can also check out my Dr. Shannon Facebook Page for more daily S.O.L. TRAINING. I look forward to seeing you again tomorrow. Please invite your best girlfriends to come and join our S.O.L. PARTY. xo Dr. Shannon. Inspiring minds that want to grow and hearts that want to know, so you can love you, your life, and your life\u2019s work well. ONE SIP AT A TIME. A special thanks to the following souls for helping me launch our WOMEN SIPPING ON LIFE podcast\u2026 Intro\/Outro done by UNI V. SOL  Outro music by Jay Man: Mind Over Matter (www.ourmusicbox.com)  Podcast cover design and web site done by: Pablo Aguilar (www.webdesigncreator.com) Podcast cover photo by Kate Montague of KM Captured (www.kmcaptured.com)  ","author_name":"SHE SPEAKS SHE HEALS Podcast with Doctor Shannon","author_url":"http:\/\/www.doctorshannon.com\/blog","html":"