{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"The Trans Military Ban and QSE Listener Questions 4 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 50","description":"Sara and Jay discuss the recently finalized trans military ban, including how we must address the impact of that on our community and still be abolitionist in our criticism of US imperialism and the military as an institution of violence. We also answer listener questions about staying dominant while you are bottoming, and navigating when one partner needs space when the other has abandonment trauma.  Segments: 7:36 - Trans Military Ban 30:30 - Patreon Message 34:30 - Question Intro 41:22 - Question 1, Staying dominant while bottoming 52:30 - Question 2,&amp;nbsp; What to do when one partner needs space and the other struggles with abandonment 1:10:18 - Question 3, Finding a trans-competent therapist for my son Show Links: -&amp;nbsp;www.apnews.com\/ae07308b29c342429c3c627b7fc0b404   -&amp;nbsp;www.queertranswarban.wordpress.com   -&amp;nbsp;www.polyamoryonpurpose.com\/polyamory-drama Queer Sex Ed is going on tour in 2019 and you can bring us to your school, community center, workplace, or local dungeon! Learn more at&amp;nbsp;www.queersexed.org\/tour2019&amp;nbsp;or email&amp;nbsp;queersexed@gmail.com&amp;nbsp;to book your event with us or inquire about our sliding scale pricing. You can send your questions to&amp;nbsp;queersexed@gmail.com&amp;nbsp;for us to answer them on future shows. More information about our mission available at&amp;nbsp;www.queersexed.org.  This show is made possible by our generous Patreon supporters! If you find the show helpful and you are financially able to support us, consider joining our Patreon community at&amp;nbsp;www.patreon.com\/QueerSexEd. Any amount you can give makes a huge difference for us. ","author_name":"Queer Sex Ed Podcast","author_url":"http:\/\/www.queersexed.org","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/9021920\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/37062797"}