{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Guest: Dilyn Murphy","description":"A healthy relationship requires attention...left unattended they will inevitably deteriorate. About 10 years into my marriage I pushed the envelope with regard to neglecting my part in the arrangement. I forgot that it\u2019s crucial for everything to grow and I was not playing my part. Thank god I had\/have a loving and patient wife and that I woke up and re-engaged before it was too late. \u201cExplore ways of being that empower your relationship. . . explore and discover them together. . . every day and every minute.\u201d  This episode was an amazing opportunity to have a dialogue with my wife about the breakdown and ultimate breakthrough in our marriage. Seems like these days everything on the web from self improvement, personal development, finding the right partner or having a healthy marriage etc. comes with a TO DO list. It\u2019s eye catching, easy to read and great for search engine optimization, at least that\u2019s what they tell me and by \u201cthey\u201d I mean my content strategist. I think that\u2019s what his title is. Those lists are someone\u2019s opinion and we all know what opinions are like...but seriously some of those self help, personal development posts can be helpful as reminders in a noisy and distracting world. So forgive my sarcasm cause I actually like the lists...in my recent podcast I had the pleasure of interviewing my wife. When I was thinking about this blog post I tripped on a TO DO list in the Huffington Post that I liked 11 Ways To Make Your Marriage Happier, Starting Today&amp;nbsp;And that\u2019s what\u2019s kicked off his post. Check out the list and see if it inspires you. If you are in a relationship that you are committed to nurturing it, then I think you will. I mean just a few of the suggestions are, though obvious, solid: \u201cRecognize the ebb-and-flow.\u201d \u201cRemind your partner (and yourself) that you appreciate them\u201d. \u201cSay thank you for the little things.\u201d To name a few. ","author_name":"Breakthroughs with Jordan Murphy","author_url":"https:\/\/www.breakthroughswithjordanmurphy.com\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/6663747\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/6663747"}