{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Joel Stein - Porn, Relationships - Part 2","description":"It's part 2 with TIME Magazine columnist Joel Stein, and we do not hold back. Some quotes from this episode: "I get very excited when someone has a fetish I don\u2019t have because I feel superior." "When I hear alcoholics talk about their first drink, I know the intensity when I first saw my first porn magazine. And the self-hatred, and it was so shameful and so intense. It was so big, that feeling, that I wasn\u2019t able to contain it in any vessel in my body. It was super super and still is very intense." "I listen to healthy men talk about watching porn, and it\u2019s a tool to have an orgasm. To me, masturbation is a tool to watch porn." "Relationships get established really early. Like you establish a pattern within weeks that lasts for decades." "A marriage or a relationship is a million tiny acts of bravery, and [Joel's wife Cassandra] was really good at being brave in the moment and bringing the thing up, like when she\u2019s hurt. I really admire that. It\u2019s really hard." "I need someone to ask me five times before I tell them how I feel, and then I\u2019m mad if they don\u2019t notice."   You can find Joel on Twitter at https:\/\/twitter.com\/thejoelstein A link to buy his book: https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Man-Made-Which-Dad-Learns\/dp\/0446573116 You can find me on Instagram at https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/igorpix\/ Feel free to write me at howareyouthinkingabout@gmail.com   Theme song: Vocals: MACK - https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mackandgold\/ Mix: Dan Gerbang - https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/dangerbang\/ Writer: Igor Hiller   Cover art by George Hilton III: http:\/\/georgiecreates.tumblr.com\/ Cover design by Eve Survilo: http:\/\/www.evesurvilo.com\/   Thank you for listening. My favorite palindrome is "A man, a plan, a canal: Panama" ","author_name":"How Are You Thinking About? with Igor","author_url":"http:\/\/howareyouthinkingabout.libsyn.com\/podcast","html":"