{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"More Than Mom: Loving Your Family Without Losing Yourself","description":"Want to go deeper? Subscribe for access to the Restored Reflection Journal Library, where you'll find guided prompts to help you explore the themes of each episode and apply them to your own life. Get access to the Reflection Journal Library: https:\/\/subscribepage.io\/restored-reflection-guide Who Are You When Motherhood Begins to Change? Motherhood has a way of becoming woven into nearly every part of our identity. For years, we're needed in countless ways\u2014guiding, nurturing, organizing, protecting, and showing up. But what happens when our children grow older and begin building lives of their own? Even when we celebrate their independence, the transition can bring unexpected questions about identity, purpose, marriage, and what comes next. In this episode of Restored: Where Psychology Meets Grace, Dr. Malorie explores the psychology of motherhood, identity, and the changing relationship between mothers and their adult children. This isn't a conversation about loving your family less. It's about recognizing that you can love your family deeply without allowing motherhood to become the entirety of who you are. In This Episode We explore: Motherhood and identity: How the roles we occupy shape our sense of self, and what happens when one role begins to define us too narrowly. Role engulfment: Why becoming so identified with motherhood can make life transitions feel especially unsettling. The psychology of self-schemas: How deeply held beliefs about who we are influence our choices, relationships, and sense of purpose. Parenting adult children: The shift from being needed in familiar ways to developing a different, often deeply rewarding relationship with our grown children. Marriage and personal identity: Why nurturing your relationship with your spouse, your interests, and your individual goals matters alongside your role as a mother. Rediscovering yourself: How to make room for the parts of your identity that may have received less attention during the busiest years of parenting. Where Psychology Meets Grace In Luke 10, we encounter Mary and Martha, two sisters whose different responses to Jesus offer an opportunity to reflect on responsibility, presence, and the roles that can consume our attention. Through this familiar biblical story, we consider what it means to care deeply for others without becoming so absorbed in what we do that we lose sight of who we are and what matters most. A Thought to Carry With You Motherhood is a meaningful part of your identity. But it was never meant to be the only part. As children grow, motherhood doesn't disappear. It evolves. And that evolution can create room for something beautiful: a new relationship with your adult children, renewed investment in your marriage, and opportunities to rediscover interests, relationships, and possibilities that belong to you. This episode offers a gentle invitation to embrace those possibilities without guilt. Continue the Reflection What parts of yourself have received less attention while you've been caring for your family? What might you want to rediscover or cultivate in this next season? The accompanying Reflection Journal provides space to explore these questions more deeply. Subscribe for access: https:\/\/subscribepage.io\/restored-reflection-guide Listen and Share Listen here: https:\/\/pod.link\/1864576270 or wherever you get your podcasts. If this episode resonates with you, consider sharing it with another mother who may be navigating a changing season of life. Following, rating, and reviewing Restored also helps others discover these conversations about psychological well-being, relationships, faith, and personal growth. Disclaimer Restored: Where Psychology Meets Grace is intended for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared in this podcast is not a substitute for psychotherapy, mental health treatment, medical care, diagnosis, or individualized professional advice. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist-client relationship. Psychological concepts and strategies discussed are general in nature and may not be appropriate for every individual or circumstance. If you are experiencing mental health concerns or significant emotional distress, please seek support from a qualified mental health or healthcare professional who can provide guidance specific to your situation. ","author_name":"Restored: Where Psychology Meets Grace","author_url":"https:\/\/www.greater-things.com","html":"