{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"743: Why Americans Stopped Having Friends with Rich Villodas","description":"Americans are spending more time alone, inviting fewer people into their homes, and struggling to build meaningful friendships. What's behind the decline of hospitality, and what can the church do about it? Live from New York City, Phil, Skye, and Kaitlyn are joined by pastor Rich Villodas to discuss the loneliness epidemic, our growing preference for digital entertainment, and why real community requires more than just joining a small group. They also explore the difference between feeling fear and being controlled by it, and why following Jesus means risking vulnerability and even getting hurt. Plus, can Skye and Kaitlyn pass Phil's news quiz? Holy Post Plus: Ad-Free Version of this Episode: https:\/\/holypost.substack.com\/p\/20ad4f8c-1863-493d-bd7c-672c35ff294b?postPreview=free&updated=2026-10-20T17%3A15%3A00.531Z&audience=only_paid&free_preview=true&freemail=true   Bonus Q&A Video: https:\/\/holypost.substack.com\/p\/bfa4011c-d648-48fd-bc14-68904f22d49a?postPreview=free&updated=2026-10-20T20%3A08%3A09.883Z&audience=only_paid&free_preview=true&freemail=true   0:00 - Show Starts   1:44 - Ukeleles and Airports   5:40 - Theme Song   5:20 - BetterHelp - This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https:\/\/www.betterhelp.com\/HOLYPOST and get 10% off your first month!   6:19 - AG1 - Heavily researched, thoroughly purity-tested, and filled with stuff you need. Get the AG1 $76 Welcome Pack for free when you order from https:\/\/www.drinkag1.com\/HOLYPOST   8:05 - New York, New York   11:14  - Phil\u2019s News Quiz Show   19:39 - Rich Villodas!   22:28 - Cancelled Livestreamed Execution   31:30 - Sponsor - PolicyGenius - Secure your family\u2019s tomorrow so you have peace of mind today. Go to https:\/\/www.policygenius.com\/HOLYPOST to find the right life insurance for you   32:34 - Sponsor - Rocket Money - Find and cancel your old subscriptions with Rocket Money at https:\/\/www.rocketmoney.com\/HOLYPOST   33:22 - The Death of Hosting   50:32 - Obligation and Community   1:11:17 - End Credits Articles Discussed in News Segment: Grandmother Breaks Planking Record: https:\/\/people.com\/grandmother-breaks-own-record-planking-world-record-at-5-hours-12170377   AI Causes Illegal Hunt: https:\/\/alaskabeacon.com\/2026\/09\/28\/misleading-google-ai-instructions-cause-kodiak-woman-to-be-cited-for-illegal-snipe-hunt\/   Traffic Blocked by Giant Object:  https:\/\/nypost.com\/video\/giant-inflatable-pumpkin-breaks-loose-in-north-carolina\/   Finnish Chef Sets World Record: https:\/\/www.guinnessworldrecords.com\/news\/2026\/10\/chef-chugs-500-ml-of-his-favourite-orange-soda-in-just-a-few-seconds-to-claim-record   Man Sets World Record for Catching Something in His Mouth: https:\/\/www.upi.com\/Odd_News\/2026\/10\/13\/guinness-world-records-david-rush-paper-planes-mouth\/5211791898743\/   The Decline of Dinner by Derek Thompson: https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/ideas\/2026\/10\/americans-socialization-dinner-decline-hosting\/688846\/   Resources: Rich Villodas on Lanterns: https:\/\/substack.com\/home\/post\/p-218929631   Holy Post website: https:\/\/www.holypost.com\/   Holy Post Plus: www.holypost.com\/plus   Holy Post Patreon: https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/holypost   Holy Post Merch Store: https:\/\/www.holypost.com\/shop   The Holy Post is supported by our listeners. We may earn affiliate commissions through links listed here. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. ","author_name":"The Holy Post","author_url":"https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/holypost","html":"