{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"The Physical Effects of Grief: How Loss Impacts Your Body and Mind with Carol Banens","description":"Donna introduces Carol Banens, a grief educator, coach, author, and speaker who combines lived experience with professional training to help people understand grief without feeling broken by it. Carol shares how the death of her husband, along with earlier losses, reshaped her path from physical therapy into grief education, writing, and community support.In this episode, they explore how grief affects the whole body, why the five stages model is often misunderstood, and how support, journaling, and time away from daily responsibilities can help people begin living again with self-compassion and hope.   Key topics Donna introduces Carol Banens and her work as a grief educator, coach, author, and speaker. Carol shares her backstory as a physical therapist for 36 years before transitioning into grief work after her husband Brian died in 2018. She explains how an earlier childhood loss of her sister in the UK shaped her family\u2019s approach to grief and her own early beliefs about \u201ckeeping calm and carrying on.\u201d Carol describes returning to work three days after her husband\u2019s funeral and later realizing that grief\u2019s lethargy and exhaustion were overwhelming her. She shares how time away at a quiet retreat helped her let grief surface, journal, and begin reshaping her life. Donna and Carol discuss how grief can follow many kinds of loss, including divorce, job loss, relocation, homesickness, and life transitions. Carol explains how grief can affect emotional, cognitive, physical, and spiritual well-being. They unpack the five stages of grief and why they shouldn\u2019t be treated as a rigid roadmap. They discuss the importance of community, including supportive friends, family, and grief groups where people can share openly. Carol shares her work with the Grief Gurus and the Grief Cafe, as well as an upcoming grief retreat in Torino focused on helping women rediscover joy and confidence.   Timestamps 00:00 - Donna opens with why Carol\u2019s grief work is worth listening to 01:27 - How Carol was introduced through a mutual widow friend 02:02 - Carol\u2019s story begins with physical therapy and her husband\u2019s cancer diagnosis 02:56 - Childhood loss in the UK and the \u201ckeep calm and carry on\u201d family pattern 04:20 - A month away from work becomes a turning point 05:19 - Writing poetry becomes part of Carol\u2019s healing 06:02 - Grief can come from divorce, relocation, and other life losses 08:09 - Why Google searches and the five stages can make grievers feel like they\u2019re doing it wrong 09:16 - The five stages were not originally written as a griever\u2019s roadmap 10:44 - Recognizing grief in job loss, divorce, and homesickness 11:44 - Grief as a whole-body experience affecting heart, brain, emotions, and faith 14:37 - Why stepping away from home can help people rest and process loss 15:20 - Donna\u2019s family retreat story and the role of disconnection in healing 16:41 - Why community matters in grief 20:33 - The Grief Gurus, the Grief Lifeline course, and early-grief support 21:23 - The Grief Cafe as a free monthly space for shared support 22:16 - Shared grief groups becoming lasting friendships 23:13 - Why grief can return years later through memories, songs, smells, and anniversaries 24:40 - Carol\u2019s upcoming grief retreat in Torino, focused on joy, beauty, and rediscovering self 27:41 - Carol\u2019s parting wisdom: give yourself permission to grieve   Connect with Carol https:\/\/carolbanens.com\/   ______________________________ CONNECT \ud83e\udd1d Facebook: \/donnajeankendrick LinkedIn: \/donna-kendrick Instagram: \/donnajeankendrick _______________________________ CONTACT \u260e Website: https:\/\/sephtonfinancial.com\/ Phone: (215) 948-3945 Complimentary Consultation\/Contact Us: https:\/\/calendly.com\/donnakendrick\/10... 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The guests on the podcast are not affiliated or registered with Cetera Financial Specialist. Any information provided by the guests are in no way related to Cetera Financial Specialist or its registered representatives. ","author_name":"Widow, Wisdom & Wealth\u2122: Thriving in Career and Parenthood After Loss","author_url":"https:\/\/widowwisdomwealth.com","html":"