{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"MFP 399: Motherhood - Losing Yourself or Becoming Yourself?","description":"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. - Matthew 11:28 Summary Motherhood changes everything\u2014and sometimes that transformation feels less like a beautiful makeover and more like someone rearranged your whole life while you were trying to sleep. In this honest, hopeful episode, Alicia and guest host Katie Gamboa explore the tension between self-care and sacrificial love. How do mothers give generously without running on empty? We also challenge today\u2019s impossible expectations: work, prepare healthy meals, raise happy children, keep the house running, and look effortlessly radiant while doing it all. Spoiler alert: no one was meant to mother alone.   From postpartum support and marriage to community, identity, and grace, this conversation offers encouragement for every mom who has wondered, \u201cWill I ever feel like myself again?\u201d Perhaps the invitation isn\u2019t to recover the old you, but to become even more fully yourself\u2014messy, loved, stretched, and strengthened by God.  So grab your coffee (reheated for the third time), take a breath, and listen in. You were made to give love\u2014but you were also made to receive care. Let\u2019s discover how both can beautifully belong together.   Key Takeaways The transition to being a mom is huge - don\u2019t underestimate how hard it can be and it's ok to be honest about it.  Sacrificial love is not the opposite of self-care.  You need to care for yourself in order to love sacrificially.  Don\u2019t feel guilty about loosening the \u201cstandards\u201d you set for yourself if it helps you to get through the day. Never forget that you were made for this, but you do need to support your body and heart so you can do what you were made to do.  Couple Discussion Questions How has being a mother changed you and how you think of yourself?  Of your body?  Of our marriage?   How can we work together to support our unique roles knowing what a change this has been?   ","author_name":"Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family","author_url":"https:\/\/www.MessyFamilyProject.org","html":"