{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"110- Healing With Imperfect Tools","description":"Sometimes the thing that helps us heal, grow, or change isn\u2019t perfect. The teacher may be messy. The book may contain ideas we strongly disagree with. The therapist may be competent rather than extraordinary. The program may not be the ideal one. And yet, when we are genuinely committed to transformation, we can sometimes find exactly the piece of wisdom we need. In this episode, I explore the surprising power of imperfect tools, including the unlikely example of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, a book that has plenty to critique and yet played a meaningful role in helping my parents repair their marriage. I also share some of my own experiences learning valuable things from deeply imperfect people, and look at the ways our search for the \u201cperfect\u201d practitioner, program, therapist, diet, or path can sometimes become its own obstacle to moving forward. We\u2019ll explore: Why imperfect resources can still contain powerful medicine The difference between wanting change and having your will truly engaged in creating it How searching for the perfect solution can keep us stuck What my parents\u2019 marriage taught me about learning new relationship skills Overfunctioning, underfunctioning, and the importance of learning to fill your own cup Why expensive or prestigious support doesn\u2019t guarantee transformation How intention can help us recognize and harvest the wisdom that is actually useful to us Why this idea has important limits, particularly with addiction, severe trauma, or suicidal ideation There is real value in finding excellent teachers, practitioners, and resources. But sometimes we don\u2019t need the perfect tool in order to begin. Sometimes we need something good enough to work with, a genuine commitment to change, and the willingness to learn, adjust, and keep moving. Want to support my work and be supported by my team of guides?  Check out my membership offer: https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/practicalshamanism Want more audio content from me? Check out my online academy at https:\/\/academy.handsoverheart.com\/  Sound editing by Kev Young.  You can reach them at kyoung.keviny@gmail.com DISCLAIMER: The suggestions and information provided here are intended for personal growth and exploration. The content of this podcast is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice or psychological treatment. Please seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition.   To learn more about me and my work, please visit my website at https:\/\/handsoverheart.com ","author_name":"Practical Shamanism","author_url":"http:\/\/practicalshamanism.libsyn.com\/website","html":"