{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Don't Trade The Oil With Bekah Lagafuaina","description":"What if the most dangerous thing isn\u2019t losing God\u2019s presence, but losing His presence and not even realizing it?  In this powerful message from Girls Night In, Young Adult Pastor, Bekah Lagafuaina challenges us to look honestly at the places where compromise, comfort, fear, and temporary pleasure may be costing us what God has entrusted to us.  What are you willing to trade for comfort? In this powerful message from Girls Night In, Bekah Lagafuaina shares a deeply personal testimony about learning to surrender fear, control, comfort, and compromise to say yes to God fully.  Through the story of Samson, Bekah reminds us that compromise rarely happens all at once. It can happen one decision at a time, until we become so comfortable with what we\u2019ve compromised that we no longer recognize what we\u2019ve lost.  She challenges us to ask: 1. Are we letting what we want become louder than what God said? 2. Are we protecting what God has entrusted to us? 3. Have we confused God\u2019s grace with His approval? 4. Are we relying on someone else\u2019s prayers, faith, or anointing instead of cultivating our own relationship with Jesus?  The story of the ten bridesmaids in Matthew 25 reminds us that having a lamp isn\u2019t the same as having oil. We cannot live off someone else\u2019s anointing. We need our own oil. We need our own relationship with Jesus.&amp;nbsp;And above everything God has called us to carry, the greatest thing we can carry is His presence.  Bekah also shares part of her personal journey with her husband Elijah, the prayers she prayed when others didn\u2019t yet understand their relationship, and how God\u2019s faithfulness brought what He had shown her full circle.  &quot;Whatever it costs to keep His presence is worth it.&quot; _____________________  TIMESTAMPS 00:00 \u2014 The Word God Put on Her Heart: Compromise 01:40 \u2014 When Comfort Makes Us Compromise Our Calling 03:20 \u2014 Fear, Control &amp;amp; Learning to Depend on God 05:43 \u2014 Your Yes Can\u2019t Be Conditional 08:58 \u2014 Don\u2019t Trade the Oil 09:55 \u2014 Samson: When Temporary Pleasure Costs You Something Eternal 19:50 \u2014 Four Warnings About Compromise 23:05 \u2014 The Danger of Losing God\u2019s Presence Without Realizing It 24:03 \u2014 The Ten Bridesmaids &amp;amp; The Oil 29:38 \u2014 \u201cGod, May Your Anointing Never Leave Me\u201d 30:38 \u2014 Don\u2019t Get Caught Up in Your Delilahs 31:22 \u2014 There Is Still a Way Back 32:50 \u2014 Whatever It Costs to Keep His Presence Is Worth It 34:09 \u2014 Bekah &amp;amp; Elijah: Trusting God Through the Unknown 37:50 \u2014 When God\u2019s Promises Come Full Circle 39:34 \u2014 A Full-Circle Moment in Australia 41:27 \u2014 Psalm 51:10\u201312 42:55 \u2014 Prayer Over the Audience 46:00 \u2014 Prayer of Salvation &amp;amp; Closing  Scripture referenced: Judges 13\u201316 \u2022 Matthew 25:1\u201313 \u2022 Psalm 51:10\u201312  If this message speaks to you, share it with a woman who needs the reminder: don\u2019t trade what God has given you for what only feels good for a moment.  Follow Lisa Kai and Bekah Lagafuaina on all digital platforms: - Lisa Kai @lisakai - Bekah Lagafuaina @bkaiii  Don't forget to learn more about our upcoming Arise Womens Conference coming in February 2024. Check out this link for more information: https:\/\/www.arise-movement.com&amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"I AM HER","author_url":"http:\/\/www.LisaKai.tv","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/42789340\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/5919ad\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/205981420"}