{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"4168 Your Child's Mountaintop in the Valley","description":"We tell our kids something all the time without realizing it. We say, "You'll get there\u2014 one day," painting the picture of a summit: gleaming, golden, way up high, as if that's the only place where victory lives. But what if we've been pointing our children in the wrong direction? What if the moment we've been telling them to wait for is already happening right where they are? Your child's mountaintop in the valley doesn't happen at the top; it happens in the climb. School is back in session. Backpacks are loaded. Schedules are pinned to refrigerators. And your child is walking into a season full of unknowns \u2014 new teachers, new expectations, new social dynamics, and the quiet pressure to perform. Some of them are excited. Some are dragging their feet. And some are carrying things they haven't told you about yet. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https:\/\/createyournow.com #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent Here's what I want you to hear as a parent: the valley is not a punishment. It's a classroom. We've been conditioned to think of valleys as something to survive and mountaintops as something to celebrate. But Scripture flips that. Psalm 23:4 says, "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me." Notice \u2014 God didn't say He'd airlift David out of the valley. He said He'd walk through it with him. The valley is where the presence of God becomes personal. Your child's valley might look like a subject that doesn't come easy. It might look like a friendship that fell apart over the summer. It might look like the anxiety of not knowing where they fit. And in those moments, they don't need you to fix it. They need you to sit in it with them \u2014 and remind them that the hard stuff isn't a sign they're failing. It's a sign they're growing. Think about every person in the Bible who did something extraordinary. Moses stuttered. David was the runt of his family. Esther was an orphan. Gideon was hiding in a winepress. Not one of them started on a mountaintop. They started in the low place \u2014 and God met them there. He didn't wait until they had it together. He came to them in the middle of the mess and said, "You're the one I'm going to use." That's the word for your child this season. They don't have to have it all figured out. They don't need straight A's to have a straight path. They need to know that the valley isn't the end of their story \u2014 it's the setting for their breakthrough. Romans 5:3-4 lays it out plainly: "We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope." Perseverance. Character. Hope. That's a mountaintop built from valley materials. That's the kind of strength no shortcut can manufacture. So what does this look like practically? How do we help our children find their footing when the ground feels uneven?  We have to encourage them to keep climbing. The K.I.S.S. ~ Keep climbing! When you look at what you're doing now, how are you handling these tough moments? Being a mom is not an easy road. You'll have bumps and potholes along the way. But that doesn't mean you have failed.  You get to help your child climb from where they are. So what does it look like in real life? 1. Name the valley out loud. Don't let your child struggle in silence. Create space for honest conversation \u2014 not to solve, but to see. Ask them what feels hard right now. Ask them what they wish you knew. When a child hears, "I see you, and what you're going through matters," that alone shifts the ground beneath them. You're not rescuing them from the valley. You're lighting a torch so they can see where they're walking. 2. Celebrate the climb, not just the summit. We are so quick to celebrate the A on the test, the win at the game, the award at the assembly. And those things deserve applause. But what about the night they studied when they didn't want to? The day they chose to sit with someone who was alone at lunch? The moment they tried again after getting it wrong?  Celebrate the effort. Celebrate the character. When you honor the process, your child learns that growth doesn't need a trophy to be real. 3. Speak the peak over them before they reach it. Proverbs 18:21 tells us, "The tongue has the power of life and death." Your words plant seeds in your child's heart that will bloom long after this school year ends. Don't wait until they've made it to tell them they're capable. Speak it now. Speak it in the valley. Tell them, "You are brave. You are growing. God is not done with you." Because the mountaintop isn't a place \u2014 it's a perspective. And you get to shape the lens through which your child sees every season they walk through. Here's the beautiful thing about all of this \u2014 your child doesn't have to reach the top to experience the view. The view changes with every step upward. Every hard conversation they push through, every fear they face instead of run from, every morning they choose to show up even when they don't feel like it \u2014 that's altitude. That's elevation. That's the climb, a mountaintop moment disguised as an ordinary day. And Mama, the same is true for you. You're in the valley too sometimes \u2014 juggling schedules, carrying concerns, praying prayers that feel like they're bouncing off the ceiling. But you're climbing. And your kids are watching you do it. They're learning what it looks like to keep going when the path is steep. You are their first and most powerful example of what it means to find God in the low places and trust Him with the next step. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo Deuteronomy 31:8 promises, "The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." God goes before your child into every classroom, every hallway, every hard moment. And He goes before you into every parenting decision that keeps you up at night. So let the valley be what it was always meant to be \u2014 not a dead end, but a doorway. Not a defeat, but a development. Your child's mountaintop isn't waiting for them somewhere in the distance. It's being built right now, one valley lesson at a time. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   \ud83d\udd14 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? 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