{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Why Your Best Teacher Just Said No (And What It Really Means) | EP 290","description":"In this episode, I talk about something that happens in almost every music school at some point. A great teacher, sometimes your best one, tells you no. You ask them to take on something new, and they push back, and it catches you off guard. I dig into why that happens, and what it actually reveals about the kind of leader your teachers think you are. Because a \u201cno\u201d is rarely about the task itself. A few of the key ideas I cover:  Why asking a teacher \u201cwould you like to do this?\u201d almost always gets you a no The difference between the barbershop model and a mission-based music school Why respecting boundaries isn\u2019t always the full answer How to ask for something in a way that actually gets a yes  In this episode, you\u2019ll learn:  Why your best teacher saying no might be a leadership problem, not a personality problem The exact question that turns a request into an obvious no every time How to tell if you\u2019re secretly running a barbershop instead of a mission-based school A simple mission statement framework that changes how your team responds to you Why being a stronger leader has nothing to do with being stricter What to say to a teacher instead of \u201cwould you like to,\u201d so they actually say yes  davesimonsmusic.com ","author_name":"Music Lessons and Marketing","author_url":"http:\/\/davesimonsmusic.com\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/42458770\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/42458770"}