{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"You Think You're Helping. Here's What You're Actually Doing. ft. Adam Roach","description":"When winning still doesn't feel like winning, the problem was never the goal. It was the why you were chasing it.   Adam Roach built and exited multiple companies.... a tennis club in Beverly Hills, three real estate franchises, a SaaS business. And none of it was enough.   In this episode, I sit down with Adam to unpack that feeling of emptiness. We go back to the moment he calls his beach chair moment: the realization that chasing success on repeat was a dead end.   But that decision came with a cost.   Adam opens up about the identity hangover that followed and a very practical reason he couldn't afford to stay stuck (an $18,000-a-month reason, to be exact).   He also talks about the framework he borrowed from Donald Miller's Hero on a Mission\u2014which now runs everything he does: the difference between being the hero of the story and being the guide.   As we continue pulling on that thread, Adam shares the exact language he uses to bring himself out of hero mode when speaking with his coaching clients, peers, and even family! If you've ever wondered why success still feels empty... or why the more you achieve, the more there seems to be left to prove, this conversation is for you.   ___   \ud83d\udccc What's covered in this episode: 00:00 \u2014 Podcast Intro 01:12 \u2014 Meet Adam Roach 04:16 \u2014 Success vs. Significance 05:54 \u2014 The Beach Chair Moment That Changed Everything 09:36 \u2014 Why You Need an Advisory Board 12:28 \u2014 The Identity Hangover After Success 16:50 \u2014 The $18,000\/Month Wake-Up Call 22:27 \u2014 Stop Being the Hero. Become the Guide. 28:25 \u2014 Why Empathy Beats Solutions 30:18 \u2014 Feel This or Fix This? 33:54 \u2014 From Hero to Guide 43:10 \u2014 The 59-Question Coaching Experiment 47:02 \u2014 Final Leadership Advice   \ud83d\udd14 Don't miss an episode! Subscribe for weekly leadership conversations that go beyond the surface: Youtube Uncommon Leadership Podcast   __   \ud83d\udcac Where do you wish someone would guide you a little more, and be the hero a little less? Drop it below. __   Prefer audio? Apple- Apple Uncommon Leadership   Spotify- Spotify Uncommon Leadership   This podcast is brought to you by Uncommon Teams: Uncommonteams Home - Uncommon Teams   __   \ud83c\udf99\ufe0f About Uncommon Leadership: I'm Michael Hunter, founder of Uncommon Teams. On the Uncommon Leadership Podcast, I sit down with founders, executives, researchers, and leadership thinkers to explore what it really means to lead in today's world.   Together, we unpack the intersection of leadership, psychology, resilience, and culture\u2014because I believe the best leaders don't just build successful businesses. They build environments where people can do their best work and become their best selves.   __   Speakers in this episode of the Uncommon Leadership Podcast:   Adam Roach | Guest Adam Roach is an entrepreneur, business coach, and Founder of I Love Coaching Co. After building and scaling multiple businesses, he now helps coaches and entrepreneurs create purpose-driven businesses through the REAL Coach Method, empowering them to build lasting impact.   Connect with Adam Roach: LinkedIn: https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/adamrroach\/ YouTube Channel: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@adamrroach Instagram: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/adamrroach Website: https:\/\/ilovecoachingco.com\/     Michael Hunter | Host Michael Hunter is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and the founder of Uncommon Teams. Drawing on his experience working with leaders at tech giants like Microsoft and Salesforce, Michael helps founders and Heads of People align personal fulfillment with sustainable business success.   Work with Michael Hunter: LinkedIn: Linkedin linkedin.com\/in\/humbugreality Website: Uncommonteams Home - Uncommon Teams Newsletter: Uncommonteams Newsletter Archive - Uncommon Teams Read the book: Uncommonteams The Resilient Tech Leader Online Workbook Companion - Uncommon Teams Work with Michael Hunter: Uncommonteams Work with me - Uncommon Teams   __   \ud83c\udfb5 Music Credits: Title: Soft Background Author: DmitriySimf Source: Envato License Code: BTGYS9EML4 ","author_name":"Uncommon Leadership","author_url":"https:\/\/uncommonteams.com\/","html":"