{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Why Lasting Change Starts With Identity, Not Willpower","description":"Knowing what to do isn\u2019t always the problem. Lasting change gets easier when who you\u2019re becoming and the systems around you begin working together. Episode #270 \ud83c\udf99\ufe0f In this solo Turbo Talk episode, Coach Terri Lance explores why more knowledge, stricter rules and greater motivation often aren\u2019t what\u2019s missing when you know how to fast and eat well but still struggle to follow through consistently. Most people begin by trying to change their behavior: fast for a certain number of hours, eat the right foods, attend more meetings or simply try harder. Terri explains why following a plan can produce temporary behavior without necessarily creating the deeper transformation needed to sustain it. She starts with identity: instead of only asking what you should do, what changes when you ask, \u201cWho am I becoming?\u201d From there, Terri explores the shift from treating your body as something to control or make smaller to becoming someone who supports it, works with it and creates the conditions for better health. The final piece is systems. Goals matter, but the routines, environment and structures surrounding you determine how much friction you face when life gets busy, stressful or tiring. Good systems don\u2019t remove personal responsibility\u2014they reduce the number of difficult decisions your future self has to keep making. Together, identity, your relationship with your body and supportive systems can turn consistency from a constant test of willpower into something that fits more naturally into the life you\u2019re building. \ud83d\udc49 What you\u2019ll learn \u2022 Why knowing more doesn\u2019t necessarily lead to lasting change \u2022 The difference between performing healthy behaviors and changing your identity \u2022 How asking \u201cWho am I becoming?\u201d can change the way you approach fasting and nutrition \u2022 Why each choice can reinforce the person you\u2019re becoming \u2022 How to shift from forcing weight loss to supporting your body\u2019s health and function \u2022 Why treating your body as a partner can change the goals you set \u2022 How systems and environmental design reduce unnecessary friction \u2022 Why structure can be an act of self-compassion rather than restriction \u2022 How to build support for the tired, stressed or busy version of yourself \ud83d\udcdd Read the Transcript You can read the transcript and explore more episodes of The Fasting Method Podcast here: https:\/\/www.thefastingmethod.com\/podcasts\/ \u2699\ufe0f Ready to Change Gears? If you know what you should be doing but keep finding yourself caught between pushing harder and losing momentum, Terri\u2019s upcoming workshop takes this conversation into practical application. Changing Gears: What Pace Do You Need as Summer Ends? Coach Terri Lance Terri will help you identify the gear you\u2019re currently in, recognize the emotional or practical friction affecting you, and decide what pace, support and intentional adjustment genuinely make sense next\u2014without turning the end of summer into another all-or-nothing reset. Also available in our August Workshop Collection: What Is Your Gut Trying to Tell You? Coach Lisa Chance Explore the workshops: https:\/\/www.thefastingmethod.com\/workshops\/ \ud83d\udce3 Connect With Us Instagram: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/fastingmethod\/ Facebook: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheFastingMethod Join our free Facebook group: https:\/\/bit.ly\/TFMNetwork \ud83e\udd1d Join The Fasting Method Community Build your fasting knowledge, learn from experienced coaches and connect with people who understand the journey: https:\/\/www.thefastingmethod.com\/community\/ \u23f1\ufe0f Timestamps 00:00 When consistency stops feeling like a constant fight 00:32 Terri introduces the three connected pieces of lasting change 01:55 Why trying harder isn\u2019t solving the problem 02:47 Information versus transformation 03:00 Why changing behavior alone isn\u2019t enough 04:48 Healthy change starts with identity 05:14 Ask \u201cWho am I becoming?\u201d 07:09 Casting votes for the person you want to become 08:32 How identity begins changing your goals 09:38 Moving beyond \u201cI need my body to get smaller\u201d 11:35 What if the goal is helping your body function better? 12:51 Treating your body as a partner 14:17 How different goals create different choices 14:55 Why goals aren\u2019t enough without systems 16:45 Building structure around real life 17:27 Using your environment to make choices easier 18:04 What supportive systems can look like 20:43 Reducing friction instead of relying on willpower 21:25 The Thursday-night test of your system 22:32 Stop making your future self fight the same battle 23:04 Why structure can be self-compassion 25:00 Identity first, then behavior 26:00 Becoming someone who lives differently 27:01 Bringing identity, systems and results together \u26a0\ufe0f Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only, and it is not to substitute for professional care by a doctor or other qualified medical professional. You should always speak with your physician or other healthcare professionals before doing any fasting, changing your diet in any way, taking or adjusting any medications or supplements, or adopting any treatment plan for a health problem. The use of any other products or services purchased by you as a result of this podcast does not create a healthcare provider-patient relationship between you and any of the experts affiliated with this podcast. Any information and statements regarding dietary supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. ","author_name":"The Fasting Method Podcast","author_url":"https:\/\/www.thefastingmethod.com","html":"