{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"How to figure out anything: get honest, get clear, get to work","description":" Seven and a half years in, and I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about what this show is really for \u2013 and what it means to actually figure it out.    In this solo episode, I\u2019m sharing something I\u2019ve been sitting with awhile: a method I\u2019ve been using my whole life without even realizing it. It\u2019s not something I invented and then applied \u2013 it\u2019s a pattern I traced backwards through my career, my relationships, and the chapter I\u2019m in right now. And I think if you\u2019re the kind of person who listens to this show, you\u2019ve probably been using some version of it too.    I\u2019m also sharing a little history of the show \u2013 how it started as How We\u2019ll Live back in 2019, how it became Figure It Out, and where it\u2019s going from here. This episode is a bit of a reintroduction, and I hope it feels like the start of something new.    I talk about:  The origin story of Figuring It Out \u2013 and How We\u2019ll Live to where we are now, and why the name still means everything  Why Figuring It Out is a practice, not a destination Introducing the Figuring It Out Method: know your story \u2192 get honest \u2014> get clear \u2192 get to work What \u201cknow your story\u201d actually means \u2013 and why it\u2019s the foundation, not a step Why getting honest is the hardest part (and why it starts with a feeling, not a thought) How to get clear in a way that\u2019s actually useful What \u201cget to work\u201d really looks like: the unglamorous repeated effort that closes the gap Real examples from my own life What this means for the show going forward   Connect with Hailey: Connect with me on Instagram  ShopMy - What I\u2019m Loving Lately   Email: Hailey@hailey-miller.com   Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome back 1:00 What\u2019s been going on - low key summer, planned spontaneity, and why white space matters 3:15 Show history and how I landed on the name Figuring It Out  8:30 How the show is evolving \u2013 getting more specific, for women in their 30s and 40s navigating real change  9:50 Introducing the Figuring It Out method 11:45 The Foundation: Know Your Story 13:45 Step 1: Get Honest 14:35 Step 2: Get Clear  15:07 Step 3: Get to work  15:42 Example 1: Career 18:03 Example 2: My Marriage  20:19 Example 3: Fertility  22:54 You\u2019re not alone  24:21 What this means for the show moving forward ","author_name":"Figuring It Out","author_url":"http:\/\/howwelllive.libsyn.com","html":"