{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Small Language Shifts That Protect The Mental Health of Autistic & ADHD Children","description":"The Small Language Shifts That Protect the Mental Health of Neurodivergent Kids What if some of the most common words we use with autistic and ADHD children are actually creating confusion, shame, masking and self-doubt? Words like: \u2022 Respectful \u2022 Responsible \u2022 Pay attention \u2022 Motivated \u2022 Trustworthy \u2022 Nice \u2022 Confident and on and on Most of us use these words every day without thinking twice. But for many neurodivergent children and teens, these words can feel vague, confusing, and impossible to understand. When children don't know exactly what is expected of them, they aren't learning the skill we hope to teach. Instead, they may begin to believe they are constantly getting things wrong. Over time, that misunderstanding can impact mental health, learning, and relationships. In this episode, I'm covering why and how commonly used words cause damage and how small shifts in communication can create more clarity, connection, safety, and understanding. In this episode, you'll discover: \u2714 Why vague language creates confusion for autistic and ADHD children \u2714 How words like "respectful," "responsible," and "motivated" can unintentionally hurt neurodivergent children \u2714 The connection between communication, mental health, and emotional safety \u2714 What many neurodivergent children are actually trying to communicate \u2714 Specific language shifts that improve cooperation and understanding Whether you're a parent, educator, therapist, psychologist, or someone who supports neurodivergent children and teens, this episode will help you communicate in ways that foster understanding instead of confusion and connection instead of shame. Because the goal isn't to make neurodivergent kids guess what we mean. The goal is to help them feel safe, understood, capable, and supported. If this episode resonates with you, please share it with another parent, educator, therapist, or psychologist who supports autistic and ADHD children and teens:) Thanks for joining me for this episode, Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom\/Neurodivergent Therapist Check out these resources! The 135 School Accommodations for Autistic & ADHD Students Guide is now available, including three detailed cases with accommodations for ONLY $27.95 What's Inside: \ud83d\udcda Academic Supports (45 accommodations) From pre-teaching strategies to assistive technology, the tools students need to access the curriculum without barriers \ud83c\udfa8 Sensory & Environmental Supports (22 accommodations) Create a learning environment where your child can focus, regulate, and engage\u2014not just survive \ud83e\udde0 Executive Functioning & Self-Advocacy (24 accommodations) Build the skills that will serve them for life\u2014organization, time management, and speaking up for their needs \ud83e\udd1d Social Supports (21 accommodations) Turn recess and group work from nightmare to opportunity with structured, supportive approaches \ud83d\udc9a Mental Health & Emotional Regulation (23 accommodations) Because learning can't happen when a child is overwhelmed, anxious, or in crisis \ud83c\udf1f 3 Detailed Student Examples With Individualized Accommodations Plus: \u2705 An example of each accommodation \u2705 Tips on how to identify areas of need \u2705 Free helpful education resources Don't miss this opportunity to access 135 neurodiversity-affirming accommodations for only $27.95 \u27a1\ufe0f Parents click here \u27a1\ufe0f Therapists click here \u27a1\ufe0f Educators click here Join me in my Facebook Groups! \u27a1\ufe0f Parents click here \u27a1\ufe0f Therapists click here Learn about my private practice - North Carolina Center for Autism and ADHD \ud83d\ude4b\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f Join me on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. Thank you:) About Holly Blanc Moses: Holly Blanc Moses is an AuDHD psychologist with 28 years of experience. She is a speaker, consultant, continuing education provider, and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV, and parent masterclasses. About The Podcast The Autism ADHD Podcast is for parents and professionals who want a neurodiversity-affirming approach to supporting autistic and ADHD children and teens \u2014 with a focus on emotional regulation, executive functioning, mental health, and connection. ","author_name":"THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST","author_url":"http:\/\/www.hollyblancmoses.com\/","html":"