{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"I Thought Penises Had Bones w\/ Joy Mamey","description":"Join us LIVE AT FIVE (PT) on YouTube for the watch party every Wednesday: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@birdsandbeesdontfck Joy Mamey is an actor, writer, comedian, cancer survivor, and improviser currently performing with Sunday Company at The Groundlings who grew up in Los Angeles where her sex ed teacher wouldn\u2019t answer her questions so she thought sex was basically naked kissing and that penises had bones. In this episode we talk about the surprising overlap between improv and intimacy, why &quot;yes and&quot; can become a people-pleasing trap, and what happens when we're taught to ignore our instincts to make other people comfortable. Joy shares the sex education she never got, the question her sex ed teacher refused to answer, and why she genuinely thought penises had bones. We also get into body autonomy, consent, patriarchy, impact versus intention, learning to say no, and the importance of listening when your body is trying to tell you something. &amp;nbsp; Hey, you too can Fck Like The Movies! https:\/\/www.rubyisland.media\/course Want more? Catch bonus Reddit story reactions, private chats and more on Patreon! https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cw\/birdsandbeesdontfck Where to find Joy: Instagram: @joymamey Website: https:\/\/www.joymamey.com\/ &amp;nbsp; Where to find Arielle: Instagram: @birdsandbeesdontfck  TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck  Patreon: https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cw\/birdsandbeesdontfck &amp;nbsp; Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon  STORY 1: AITAH for ending a 4 year serious relationship without even a huge fight? STORY 2: My [M27] wife [F28] showed her friends our sex tapes STORY 3: AIO because my husband \u2018forgot\u2019 to tell me we\u2019d be sharing a condo with his ex-wife during a family beach vacation?  Like jewelry that'll make you cum? Me too! Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here: https:\/\/lovecrave.com\/arielle &amp;nbsp; Episode Cheat Sheet 01:20 Meet Joy Mamey 02:45 The Groundlings, Second City &amp;amp; Improv Comedy 03:50 Why &quot;Yes And&quot; Can Become Toxic 06:50 Consent, Boundaries &amp;amp; Learning To Say No 08:00 What Improv Taught Us About Intimacy 12:45 Why Impact Matters More Than Intentions 18:00 Can Bad People Actually Change? 20:50 Psychopaths vs Sociopaths Explained 25:30 Power Dynamics, Comedy &amp;amp; Punching Down 30:15 Why Speaking Up During Sex Is So Hard 32:45 The Problem With People Pleasing In Bed 37:30 The Church Hug Joy Never Forgot 41:00 Why Patriarchy Hurts Men Too 45:45 Growing Up Without Sex Education 48:15 My Sex Ed Teacher Ignored My Question 49:45 &quot;I Thought Penises Had Bones&quot; 52:45 Why Porn Became Sex Education 55:00 Being Called &quot;Exotic&quot; As A Child 58:00 The Kinky Mind Meld Game 59:30 Why Improv Feels Like Great Sex 1:02:30 Patreon Reddit Story Preview ","author_name":"Birds And Bees Don't Fck","author_url":"https:\/\/instagram.com\/birdsandbeesdontfck","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/41520735\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/41520735"}