{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"115. I Just Want Behavior Strategies","description":"\u201cI just want behavior strategies.\u201d A parent said this to me recently at a workshop\u2014and honestly? I get it. When your child is melting down, refusing, lying, yelling, shutting down, pushing boundaries, or doing the thing that sends you over the edge\u2026 of course you want the trick. The script. The quick fix. But here\u2019s the uncomfortable truth: Most behavior strategies stop working the moment our nervous system becomes dysregulated. Because our kids aren\u2019t just responding to what we say. They\u2019re responding to our energy, our stress, our pressure, our fear, our urgency. In this episode, Angie explores why behavior tools alone rarely create lasting change\u2014and why regulation may be the parenting strategy we\u2019ve been missing. We talk about: Why behavior strategies work sometimes\u2026 and completely fail other times The hidden impact of parent dysregulation Why kids borrow regulation before they build their own The difference between controlling behavior and creating safety Why awareness and repair matter more than getting it right How understanding your own needs changes the way you show up for your child If you\u2019ve been collecting parenting strategies and still wondering why nothing sticks\u2026 This episode is for you. Because maybe the strategy isn\u2019t another strategy. Maybe it starts with you. ","author_name":"Sometimes Love Isn\u2019t Enough: The Parenting Through Challenges Podcast","author_url":"https:\/\/sites.libsyn.com\/sometimes_love_isnt_enough","html":"