{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"114. I messed up with my kid... again","description":"This week, I kept hearing the same words from parents: \u201cI messed up again.\u201d Maybe you yelled. Maybe you snapped. Maybe you said something you wish you could take back. And if you\u2019re anything like me, you know what to do\u2026 and yet somehow, in the moment, you do the exact thing you promised yourself you wouldn\u2019t. In this episode, I\u2019m talking about why that happens. Through a personal story with my granddaughter, I explore the connection between our thoughts, our nervous system, our boundaries, and the old stories we\u2019re still carrying\u2014often without realizing it. This isn\u2019t an episode about guilt. It\u2019s about understanding. Because our reactions don\u2019t make us bad parents. They make us human. And the goal isn\u2019t perfection. The goal is awareness, ownership, regulation, and repair. We explore:  Why knowing better doesn\u2019t automatically mean doing better The difference between responsibility and blame How our nervous system stores old fear and reacts to present moments Why boundaries often feel harder than reacting How our kids mirror what we model Why repair matters more than getting parenting \u201cright\u201d  If you\u2019ve been carrying guilt for losing your cool lately\u2026 This episode is your reminder: You are not failing. And every moment of awareness creates a new opportunity to show up differently. If this resonates, I\u2019d love to support you. Book a Connection Clarity Call HERE, or check out all my offerings HERE ","author_name":"Sometimes Love Isn\u2019t Enough: The Parenting Through Challenges Podcast","author_url":"https:\/\/sites.libsyn.com\/sometimes_love_isnt_enough","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/41361505\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/41361505"}