{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"The voice in your head when pain shows up","description":" Episode summary: When pain arrives, almost nobody experiences it cleanly. There's an inner narrator that starts up at the same time \u2014 and what that narrator says shapes everything that happens next. In this episode, Dr. Ya-Ling walks through three patients she's working with right now whose inner voices fall along the three pain personalities: the Achiever, the Protector, and the Critic. The through-line: that voice isn't really yours to begin with, and once you can hear it as a pattern, it can change. In this episode: The fifteen-year-old athlete whose serious concussion and whiplash almost slipped past everyone because his complaints were filed under "he's joking again" The patient whose hip pain and frozen shoulder were being kept alive by how carefully she was holding herself \u2014 and how she found the line between productive discomfort and re-injury Dr. Ya-Ling's own three-week Achenbach syndrome bruise, and which voice was weighing in about it The long-time patient who realized her rehab exercises had quietly become a form of self-punishment The reframe: patterns we didn't choose, once we can hear them as patterns, can change Resources mentioned: This week's Substack \u2014 the full walkthrough of all three pain personalities, with what each one looks like, where it usually comes from, and what recognition makes possible: https:\/\/dryalingliou.substack.com\/meet-the-three-pain-personalities The Pain Personality Quiz \u2014 now live: ya-ling.com\/quiz What's Your Pain Personality? \u2014 Dr. Ya-Ling's new e-book, launching Sunday May 24, 2026 on Amazon. (Audiobook forthcoming.) Fix the Fire Damage (The Everyday Pain Guide Vol 2) \u2014 available on Amazon. Connect: Find Dr. Ya-Ling at ya-ling.com. Subscribe, share, or leave a review \u2014 it helps more people find the show.   ","author_name":"Conversations About Everyday Pain","author_url":"https:\/\/ya-ling.com\/","html":"