{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Tight Budget, Then Surprise Gift","description":" He spent $1,500 on her for Mother's Day. She felt terrible.  A mom wrote in with a situation that sounds simple on the surface \u2014 her husband surprised her with an expensive gift she'd actually been wanting. So why did it feel so bad?  In this episode, Sterling breaks down exactly why a generous gift can land all wrong, and what it reveals about the thoughts we've been carrying for months without realizing it.  You'll learn:  Why his comments about the grocery budget created anxiety that was actually optional The difference between him having an off day about money and a real financial problem How to know if you actually have &quot;blueberry money&quot; \u2014 even when it doesn't feel like it What it looks like to receive a gift well, and why it matters more than you think Why your husband's feelings don't determine yours \u2014 and how to stop letting them   This episode is for any woman who has ever felt confused, conflicted, or quietly resentful when something good happened \u2014 and didn't understand why. ","author_name":"Catholic Mom Calm","author_url":"http:\/\/www.catholicmomcalm.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/41259960\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/201917605"}