{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"The Truth About Why Grief Feels So Heavy","description":" Episode Description \u201cYour life isn\u2019t broken. Your heart is.\u201d In this episode of Grieve That Sh!t, Sharon Brubaker, grief specialist and founder of The Grief School, breaks down why so many grievers stay stuck in pain for years\u2026 even while trying everything they can to survive it. After losing her nephew Austin, Sharon realized the problem wasn\u2019t that grievers were weak. The problem was that nobody taught us how to grieve. So we stay busy. We avoid the pain. We push it down. And we keep trying to \u201cget over\u201d something our body is still trying to process. In this episode, Sharon explains the real work of grief. Not just talking about it. Not pretending you\u2019re okay. But understanding what grief actually is, why your body reacts the way it does, and what it means to truly process pain instead of carrying it forever. She also talks about \u201ccompletion\u201d, the unfinished conversations, emotions, and words that stay trapped inside the body after loss. The things you still need to say. The anger. The guilt. The love. The goodbye you never got. Because undelivered emotions do not disappear. This conversation is not about \u201cmoving on.\u201d It\u2019s about finally understanding what grief is trying to do inside you\u2026 so you can stop fighting yourself.  What You\u2019ll Learn in This Episode  Why grief feels like a full-body experience The difference between surviving grief and processing it Why staying busy keeps grief stuck What \u201ccompletion\u201d actually means in grief How unfinished emotions stay trapped in the body Why avoiding grief makes it louder over time How to separate love from pain  Questions to Sit With After Listening Take your time with these.  What have I still not said? What emotions have I been trying to avoid? Am I processing my grief\u2026 or just surviving it? What pain am I still carrying that was never expressed?   Homework for You Write this at the top of a page: \u201cWhat is still left unsaid?\u201d Then let yourself answer honestly. Not the polite version. Not the strong version. The real one. Because grief doesn\u2019t stay stuck because you loved too much. It stays stuck when everything inside you goes unspoken.  Resources + Next Steps If this episode hit you, it\u2019s because something inside you is ready to stop surviving and start understanding your grief. You don\u2019t have to carry this alone. \ud83d\udc49 Join The Story Room \ud83d\udc49 Listen to more episodes on Grieve That Sh!t \ud83d\udc49 Learn more at: https:\/\/stan.store\/TheGriefSchool Because healing starts when you stop running from the pain and finally learn how to move through it. ","author_name":"Grieve That Sh!t","author_url":"http:\/\/healingstartswiththeheart.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/41217135\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/41217135"}