{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Trauma and Dating: What You Need to Know! (And how to Navigate this)","description":"Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti&amp;nbsp; Trauma and Dating: What You Need to Know! (And how to Navigate this) In this episode, Apollonia Ponti dives into a sensitive but important topic in modern dating\u2014how trauma influences behavior and where accountability comes into play. We explore why some women may lean on past trauma as a justification for certain actions, and what it actually looks like when someone is genuinely doing the work to heal. You\u2019ll gain insight into recognizing the difference, so you don\u2019t get stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns. Apollonia Ponti also shares practical scripts you can use when trauma is brought up in a way that creates tension or confusion, helping you respond with clarity, confidence, and emotional control. Plus, there\u2019s an opportunity to go deeper with personalized coaching if you\u2019re ready to improve your dating life. The episode wraps with a powerful reminder: your trauma may not be your fault\u2014but your healing and growth are your responsibility. Key points in this episode!  0:33 \u2014 Why some women use trauma as an excuse in dating dynamics 1:01 \u2014 What emotionally healthy behavior looks like when someone has trauma 2:02 \u2014 Sponsor break: Book a coaching call with Apollonia 3:45 \u2014 What to say: Scripts for when trauma is used against you 4:29 \u2014 Final takeaway: Your trauma isn\u2019t your fault\u2014but your healing is your responsibility  Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;  here!&amp;nbsp; &quot;I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!&quot; &amp;lt;---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating\/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button --&amp;gt;, scroll to the bottom to Rating &amp;amp; Reviews, and click on Write a Review. &amp;nbsp; Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:&amp;nbsp; Instagram;&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/apollonia_ponti\/?hl=en Facebook;&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/m.facebook.com\/apollonialovecoach Website; https:\/\/www.apolloniaponti.com\/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men\u2019s dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching ","author_name":"The Elevated Man","author_url":"https:\/\/www.apolloniaponti.com\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/40998235\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/40998235"}