{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"427 The Recovery Principle That Saved Her Business with Diane Prince","description":"What do you do when you\u2019ve had a $28 million business exit \u2014 and then watch nearly all of it disappear? If you\u2019re Diane Prince, you eventually find Al-Anon, do the work, and rebuild a life and business that\u2019s more fulfilling than anything you had before. In this episode, Arlina sits down with Diane \u2014 entrepreneur, business strategist, and Al-Anon member of 17 years \u2014 for one of the most honest conversations about recovery, money, and entrepreneurship we\u2019ve had on this show. The Exploding Doormat Diane didn\u2019t grow up with alcohol in her home. But she grew up with rage \u2014 a mother who saved her pleasant face for the outside world and unleashed her anger at home. That environment created what Diane calls the \u201cexploding doormat\u201d cycle: swallowing feelings, avoiding conflict, staying in denial \u2014 until everything finally blows. This pattern followed her into her marriage, her business partnerships, and her parenting. It took two specific moments \u2014 firing a family member who had been terrorizing her, and yelling at a boyfriend that he was \u201cworse than her ex-husband\u201d \u2014 to finally make her ask: what\u2019s the common denominator here? The answer was her. And that realization was the beginning of everything. From Atheist to Step 3 Diane resisted Al-Anon for years. She didn\u2019t believe in God. She thought the people in the rooms were the ones who were confused. It wasn\u2019t until her life felt truly unmanageable that she was willing to try. Working Step 3 at 2am \u2014 anxious, exhausted, worrying about college funds and the future \u2014 she asked herself: what if I just try this? What followed was a wave of peace she had never felt before. A spiritual experience she still can\u2019t fully explain, but one that changed everything. The $20 Moment and What Came After After the exit, after the divorce, after the financial unraveling \u2014 Diane found herself raising three kids with sometimes $20 or $50 to her name for an entire week. What she learned in that season: forcing solutions doesn\u2019t work. Letting things emerge does. When her Malibu rental situation collapsed, she didn\u2019t white-knuckle her way to a solution. She got still, turned it over, and within 24 hours had a lease on Malibu Road she never thought she could afford. Recovery Principles as Business Strategy Today, Diane runs a virtual assistant agency that helps entrepreneurs build scalable businesses. She attributes her success directly to what program has taught her: let go of control, trust the people around you, make amends quickly when you micromanage, and stay open to what wants to emerge. Action Items from This Episode: \u2022 Notice where the \u201cexploding doormat\u201d cycle shows up in your own life or business \u2022 Ask yourself: where are you forcing a solution right now? What would it feel like to let go? \u2022 If you\u2019re building a business and feel like you have to do it all yourself, consider: who could you bring in to help you scale? Books & Resources Mentioned: \u2022 Courage to Change \u2014 Al-Anon daily reader \u2022 Codependent No More by Melody Beattie Guest Website: https:\/\/dianeprince.co\/ Need help applying this information to your own life? Here are 3 ways to get started: Free Guide: 30 Tips for Your First 30 Days \u2013 With a printable PDF checklist Grab your copy here: https:\/\/www.soberlifeschool.com Private Coaching: Make Sobriety Stick https:\/\/www.makesobrietystick.com Subscribe So You Don\u2019t Miss New Episodes! Listen to the episode onApple Podcasts, Spotify, or Amazon Music, or you can stream it from my website HERE. You can also watch the interview on YouTube.     ","author_name":"Sobriety: The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast","author_url":"http:\/\/odaatchat.com","html":"