{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"\u201cWhy \u2018Bad Behavior\u2019 Isn\u2019t Bad Parenting \u2014 And the Harmful \u2018Raised Right\u2019 Myth About Autism & ADHD\u201d","description":"If you\u2019ve ever felt that gut punch\u2026 The side eye. The comment. The subtle (or not so subtle) message that your child is \u201ctoo much\u201d\u2026 or that you\u2019re somehow getting it wrong as a parent\u2026 I get it! In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I\u2019m talking about something that so many parents and therapists experience\u2026 but we don\u2019t talk about enough: The \u201cgood kid \/ bad kid\u201d narrative The \u201cthey were raised right\u201d comments And the damage this causes for autistic and ADHD kids \u2014 and their families This episode was inspired by two real-life moments that happened just days apart\u2026 and they both reminded me how deeply rooted these beliefs are in our society. Here\u2019s what we dive into: Why behavior is often misunderstood (and what\u2019s actually underneath it) How neurological differences are mistaken for \u201cbad behavior\u201d Why shame is NOT a teaching tool (and what it actually does) The emotional toll on parents of autistic and ADHD children How masking develops \u2014 and why it can be dangerous Why families begin to withdraw and isolate The invisible, extraordinary work of neurodivergent parenting This episode is for you if: You\u2019re parenting an autistic or ADHD child and feel judged or misunderstood You\u2019re a therapist, counselor, or psychologist supporting neurodivergent kids You\u2019ve ever wondered why your child\u2019s behavior doesn\u2019t \u201cmatch\u201d expectations You\u2019re trying to understand meltdowns, shutdowns, and emotional regulation You want a neurodiversity-affirming approach You are going to LOVE this episode:) Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses, The Mom\/Neurodivergent Therapist P.S. I've got more goodness for you! \ud83e\udd41\ud83e\udd41\ud83e\udd41\ud83e\udd41  The 135 School Accommodations for Autistic & ADHD Students Guide is now available, including three detailed cases with accommodations for ONLY $27.95 What's Inside: \ud83d\udcda Academic Supports (45 accommodations) From pre-teaching strategies to assistive technology, the tools students need to access the curriculum without barriers \ud83c\udfa8 Sensory & Environmental Supports (22 accommodations) Create a learning environment where your child can focus, regulate, and engage\u2014not just survive \ud83e\udde0 Executive Functioning & Self-Advocacy (24 accommodations) Build the skills that will serve them for life\u2014organization, time management, and speaking up for their needs \ud83e\udd1d Social Supports (21 accommodations) Turn recess and group work from nightmare to opportunity with structured, supportive approaches \ud83d\udc9a Mental Health & Emotional Regulation (23 accommodations) Because learning can't happen when a child is overwhelmed, anxious, or in crisis Plus: \u2705 An example of each accommodation \u2705 3 detailed cases along with accommodations \u2705 Tips on how to identify areas of need \u2705 Free helpful education resources Don't miss this opportunity to access 135 neurodiversity-affirming accommodations for only $27.95 \u27a1\ufe0f Parents click here \u27a1\ufe0f Therapists click here \u27a1\ufe0f Educators click here Join me in my Facebook Groups! \u27a1\ufe0f Parents click here \u27a1\ufe0f Therapists click here Learn about my private practice - North Carolina Center for Autism and ADHD \ud83d\ude4b\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f Join me on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. Thank you:) About Holly Blanc Moses: Holly Blanc Moses is an AuDHD psychologist with 28 years of experience. She is a speaker, consultant, continuing education provider, and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV, and parent masterclasses.   About the Podcast The Autism ADHD Podcast is for parents and professionals who want a neurodiversity-affirming approach to supporting autistic and ADHD children and teens \u2014 with a focus on emotional regulation, executive functioning, mental health, and connection. ","author_name":"THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST","author_url":"http:\/\/www.hollyblancmoses.com\/","html":"