{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"How big of a problem do you want to make this?","description":"Winning answer: Not that big I read an interview with Madonna who said that when people came into her home in LA and they saw her Frida Kahlo collection of paintings, if they didn't like Frida Kahlo, she couldn't be their friend. If I'm hanging out with somebody who turns non-problem problems into problems\u2026 I mean, I can still be their friend, but I just don't really wanna hang out with them. Here's the sticky question that changes everything\u2026 How big of a problem do you want to make this? The obvious answer is always going to be, like\u2026  Not that big of a problem. Problems don't change until you change how you relate to them. (When we bless them.) We can't control the circumstances in our lives, but we can choose how we think about them. If storms and fires are the work of the Divine, so are flat tires and breakups. All of it is a blessing (even if it\u2019s in disguise). Problems become portals when we get excited about transforming them. Where everyone else sees a roadblock, we can be like, guys\u2026 it's a secret passage to higher consciousness. Listen in for an excerpt from my new book Bless & Release. Spoiler: The book is funny. That's all I want. Well, it's not all I want. It's what I want the most. With Love, Danielle   As mentioned in this episode: Order Bless & Release and get early access to chapters dropped weekly: daniellelaporte.com\/bless Join us on Sundays at 9am PT | 12noon ET for Bless Club. A free weekly LIVE practice with Danielle LaPorte. 15 minutes. Every Sunday. Save your seat: daniellelaporte.com\/blessclub  ","author_name":"WITH LOVE, DANIELLE","author_url":"https:\/\/daniellelaporte.com\/wisdom\/podcast\/","html":"