{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Wait\u2026 Is This A Kinky Dinner Party? w\/ Maurice James","description":"Join the live watch party on YouTube today, episode release day, at 5p PT \/ 8p ET:&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@birdsandbeesdontfck Maurice James is a comedian, host, actor, and co-creator of Kinky Comedy from Jackson, Mississippi where his formal sex education came from an Episcopalian school science class taught by a teacher who carried a petrified bull testicle cane\u2026 and where sex ed mostly felt like mitosis and meiosis rather than anything connected to his own body. Want to her Maurice and I unfiltered reading Reddit stories? Join the afterparty over on Patreon! https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cw\/birdsandbeesdontfck  Get my Yes \/ No \/ Maybe List mentioned in this episode Where to find Maurice: Instagram: @mauricejamescomedy &amp;amp; @kinkycomedy Kinky Comedy: https:\/\/www.kinkycomedy.com &amp;nbsp; Where to find Arielle: Instagram: @birdsandbeesdontfck  TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck Patreon: https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cw\/birdsandbeesdontfck &amp;nbsp; Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon  STORY 1: My life has imploded. Husband 29M slept with my mom 55F right before we got married two years ago. STORY 2: I told my girlfriend I sometimes think about other girls during sex and she lost it  Like your jewlery a bit kinky? Me too. Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here:&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/lovecrave.com\/arielle &amp;nbsp; Episode Cheat Sheet 02:32 The origin of Kinky Comedy and bringing kink and comedy together 04:11 Why being a good Dom requires communication, trust and emotional intelligence 08:14 Yes \/ No \/ Maybe lists and negotiating kink scenes 10:33 Why sex is like producing a film or planning a journey 12:57 Rope bondage, body awareness and communicating boundaries 15:08 Practicing \u201cno\u201d and learning to hold boundaries 19:11 Maurice\u2019s unexpected introduction to kink at a Tinder dinner party 21:21 Why kink communities value clarity and communication 23:41 Shame, sexuality and the fear of being rejected by community 25:59 Coming out as kinky and the real career risks involved 30:39 Authenticity, privilege and living a fully expressed life 37:37 Growing up in Jackson, Mississippi 39:53 Sex education in religious private school 42:11 Why sex education needs to be ongoing and age appropriate 44:31 Abstinence education and the harm of ignoring sexuality 48:23 High school sex culture, late bloomers and learning from friends 50:23 Munches, kink community and finding people on the same journey 52:06 Losing a job, breakup and starting stand-up comedy 54:05 Building Kinky Comedy from a backyard show to a touring production 57:55 Community support and watching creative projects grow 59:58 Producing a show vs developing as a comedian 01:01:37 Comedy etiquette and why audiences shouldn\u2019t film comedians ","author_name":"Birds And Bees Don't Fck","author_url":"https:\/\/instagram.com\/birdsandbeesdontfck","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/40707390\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/40707390"}