{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"E357. Kill the ANTs: April Garcia's 7-Step Formula for Destroying Automatic Negative Thoughts","description":" Welcome Pivoter! Your brain is lying to you \u2014 and it's doing it automatically, repeatedly, and at full volume. In this powerhouse episode of PivotMe, April Garcia takes on one of the most insidious obstacles to high performance: Automatic Negative Thoughts, or ANTs. These uninvited mental squatters don't protect you from getting hurt. They just cost you opportunities, shrink your world, and steal your joy. April brings her signature no-nonsense energy to a 7-step formula for recognizing, challenging, and rewiring the thoughts that have been keeping you stuck \u2014 and she's not letting you leave without doing the work. Key Takeaways: What Are ANTs? Automatic Negative Thoughts are the reflexive, often unconscious narratives your brain generates to keep you "safe." The problem? Safe and small aren't the same thing. These thoughts don't serve you \u2014 they cost you. The Real Cost of Negative Thinking: ANTs keep you frustrated, angry, and small. They poison your relationships with others and with yourself. They rob you of the joy available right now. And most devastatingly \u2014 they cause you to dismiss opportunities without ever truly evaluating them. Your Brain's Real Job: April delivers one of the sharpest reframes in the episode: your brain is designed to protect you, not to empower you. Left unchecked, it will make you the most cautious version of yourself \u2014 not the best version. The Negative Labels Trap: Whether directed at yourself or others, negative labels calcify into identity. April challenges listeners to eliminate the labels that have quietly become cages. The Insecurity Connection: A lot of the negative narratives we build about what others think of us are really just reflections of our own insecurities \u2014 not reality. April draws a clear line between projection and truth. The 7-Step Formula to Rewire Your Brain: Step 1: Pause and notice the thought. Don't let it run on autopilot. Step 2: Write it down. Name it to tame it. Step 3: Ask \u2014 is this thought actually true? Step 4: Evaluate the evidence. What do you actually know versus what are you assuming? Step 5: Identify the cost. What is this thought taking from you? Step 6: Replace it. Generate a badass alternative thought that is equally or more believable. Step 7: Repeat the replacement until the new neural pathway becomes the default. PivotMe Goes to YouTube: April opens with a candid share about the resistance she faced \u2014 and finally pushed through \u2014 in bringing PivotMe to YouTube. A real-time example of killing your own ANTs in action. Rewiring is a Process: The brain is neuroplastic \u2014 it can be retrained. But it requires consistent, intentional repetition. The goal isn't to never have a negative thought. It's to stop letting those thoughts make your decisions. Notable Quotes: "Negative thoughts keep us small \u2014 they keep us frustrated, they keep us angry, they sour our relationships with others and with ourselves, and they rob us of the joy of the moment." \u2014 April Garcia "Stop for a moment, evaluate the opportunities that lie in front of you, and then make a decision instead of simply dismissing the opportunity." \u2014 April Garcia "A lot of times those negative narratives we build are really around something we're insecure about \u2014 not necessarily something the other person is thinking." \u2014 April Garcia "Our brain is there to protect us, not always to empower us. It doesn't usually make us the best version of ourselves \u2014 it makes us the most cautious version of ourselves." \u2014 April Garcia Actionable Items: For the next 48 hours, commit to noticing every negative thought without judgment \u2014 just observe and write them down. Pick one recurring ANT and run it through all 7 steps of April's formula. Audit the labels you've placed on yourself \u2014 identify one you're ready to retire this week. The next time you feel resistance toward an opportunity, pause before dismissing it. Ask: is this a legitimate concern or an ANT? Write three replacement thoughts \u2014 strong, believable, empowering \u2014 and read them every morning this week until they start to feel like the truth. ---------------- Ready to take this work beyond the podcast? Join us at Collaborate 2026, our once-a-year, in-person transformational experience in Grass Valley, California. Spend 2.5 powerful days gaining clarity, building momentum, and doing the deep work alongside growth-minded leaders. Early Bird pricing ends March 31st, and seats are limited. Reserve yours at www.theaprilgarcia.com\/collaborate. \ud83d\udd25 Step Into the Room with April Garcia This is your chance to secure a complimentary 20-minute strategy call with one of the most sought-after performance and business coaches. Bring your biggest challenge, and walk away with clarity, strategy, and next steps. Opportunities like this don't come often. Claim your spot now before they disappear. \ud83d\udc49\ud83d\udc49 Connect with April here: Website: https:\/\/www.theaprilgarcia.com YouTube: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/AprilGarciaPivotMe Instagram: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/theAprilGarcia\/ Facebook: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/theaprilgarcia ","author_name":"April Garcia's PivotMe","author_url":"https:\/\/www.theaprilgarcia.com","html":"