{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Men Don't Have to Get Screwed in Divorce (Here's the Playbook)","description":"Most people don\u2019t go into marriage expecting it to end. And when it does\u2026 they don\u2019t have a roadmap. If you're a man facing divorce, you\u2019ve probably heard the same story on repeat: You\u2019ll lose your money. You\u2019ll lose your kids. The system is rigged against you. But what if most of that is just noise? In this episode of Unblock Your BS, I sit down with Joe Dillon, co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, to break down what actually happens in divorce, and how to navigate it without destroying your finances, your relationship with your kids, or yourself. Joe has spent 17+ years helping couples avoid courtroom battles and unnecessary chaos. He also lived through a highly contentious divorce as a child, which shaped the way he approaches this work today. We get into: Why divorce becomes a financial and emotional war zone The biggest myths men believe (and what\u2019s actually true) How mediation works\u2014and when it doesn\u2019t What you can do right now to protect your time, money, and future And where this conversation really lands\u2026 is in how you approach the process. Because most people are making decisions way too early,  based on e\u043c\u043etion, assumptions, or incomplete information. One of the biggest shifts Joe shares is simple: do the discovery before the deciding. Don\u2019t agree to anything until you actually understand what you\u2019re working with. We also unpack: Why the \u201csystem is rigged\u201d narrative isn\u2019t the full story What 50\/50 parenting actually looks like in real life (and where most men get it wrong) What child support really is (and why it\u2019s often misunderstood) How to build a parenting plan that doesn\u2019t fall apart What actually damages kids during divorce\u2026 so you don\u2019t make it worse.  Key Takeaways Divorce isn\u2019t just emotional\u2014it\u2019s a negotiation Most conflict is driven by fear, control, and miscommunication Child support is shared responsibility, not punishment Parenting doesn\u2019t stop when it\u2019s \u201cnot your day\u201d Your kids didn\u2019t ask for this\u2026 protect them from the fallout If this episode hit for you: \ud83d\udc49 Want to stop reacting and start responding? Download my free 5-minute breathwork session \ud83d\udc49 Want support around relationships, emotional regulation, and rebuilding? Join the Self Aware Army \ud83d\udc49 Ready for deeper work? Apply for 1:1 coaching About Our Guest: Joe Dillon is the co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, where he and his wife Cheryl (a divorce coach) help couples divorce without lawyers. Joe has an MBA in Finance and combines that financial expertise with deep personal experience\u2014he is the child of a litigated divorce that left scars. Over the past 17 years, Joe has helped hundreds of couples avoid the courtroom nightmare and walk away with agreements that actually work. His approach is tactical, financial, and refreshingly honest. He practices in six states: Washington, California, Illinois, New York, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania.   Connect with Joe Dillon: You can find Joe and access free resources, courses, and consultation options at Equitable Mediation Services. He is also active on social media where he shares divorce and co-parenting advice: Instagram:@equitablemediation Facebook:Equitable Mediation YouTube:@Equitablemediation LinkedIn: https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/josephfdillon\/ Connect with Tara: Follow @unblockyourbs on Instagram @unblockyourbs on TikTok  Watch the episodes on YouTube Join the Self Aware Army Healing Community Book a 1:1 call with Tara FREE 5-minute Breathwork Download Get the Nervous System Reset Toolkit Apply to the Healthy Men-tality Men\u2019s Program Submit a question for an upcoming Podcast or LIVE   __________________________________________________________________________________   Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. I am not a licensed mental health professional or medical provider and cannot diagnose, treat, or prescribe medication for any condition. If you or someone you know is struggling, please ask for support from a licensed professional or contact a trusted organization in your area. In cases of crisis or emergency, please contact local authorities or a crisis hotline immediately. The views expressed in this podcast are my personal opinions and those of my guests. They are not intended to replace professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Thank you for listening responsibly. ","author_name":"Unblock Your BS","author_url":"https:\/\/www.unblockyourbs.com","html":"