{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 373: When a Child Blames Others (Even When They Were Wrong)","description":" Many of our kids, when they do something wrong, will immediately point the finger: \u201cHe started it\u201d or \u201cIt wasn\u2019t my fault.&quot; In those moments, it can easily look like they\u2019re being selfish or refusing to own their behavior. But what appears to be deflection is often driven by something different happening underneath the surface.  In this episode, you\u2019ll hear:  \u2022 What blaming is actually a sign of \u2022 How trying to correct this behavior can unintentionally chip away at a child\u2019s belief in themselves \u2022 Why helping children build tolerance for uncomfortable feelings allows them to take responsibility more naturally --&amp;nbsp;  FREE: Does your child have a low zone of tolerance?  Talk to Rachel about getting support&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"Your Parenting Long Game","author_url":"http:\/\/www.Rachel-Bailey.com\/podcast","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/40324660\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/199269525"}