{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Why Certainty Feels Good (And Might Be Shutting Down the Conversation)","description":"When tension rises, certainty can feel like safety. We\u2019ve all been in a room where strong conviction takes over and starts to sound like control, self-protection, and avoidance.  In leadership, certainty is often rewarded. It feels decisive and strong. But what if discernment asks us to listen instead?  In this episode, Tanner Smith, Chase Rashad Stancle, and Sarah Johnson explore what to do with your own certainty (and someone else\u2019s), how to respond when someone says, \u201cGod told me\u2026,\u201d and how to stay grounded without closing the process. Drawing on Scripture and stories from parenting, church leadership, and everyday life, they reflect on how the Holy Spirit guides communities \u2014 not just individuals \u2014 over time. In this episode, you\u2019ll hear: Why certainty is often about control, not faith How to respond wisely when someone claims spiritual authority What it looks like to be confident and humble at the same time Show Notes (resources + references mentioned): Discernment by Henri Nouwen  Acts 15:28 \u2014 \u201cIt seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us\u2026\u201d (a model of shared discernment) Matthew 7:7\u201311 \u2014 \u201cAsk, seek, knock\u2026\u201d (confidence rooted in relationship, not control) If you're interested in learning more about The Colossian Forum, visit our website colossianforum.org, and follow us on social media @colossianforum. ","author_name":"Practicing Hope Podcast","author_url":"https:\/\/colossianforum.org\/","html":"