{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"306: How to Be Civil in a Workplace (and World) That Isn\u2019t with Shola Richards","description":"A toxic workplace pushed this week\u2019s guest to his breaking point. That moment changed everything for him. &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; In this episode, Erin sits down with Shola Richards, CEO of Go Together Global, bestselling author of Civil Unity, host of the Kindness Extremist Podcast, and a speaker who has taken his message from Google and Microsoft to the TODAY Show, CBS Mornings, and even Congress. &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; But this conversation is not about fluffy kindness. &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; After years of bullying, workplace toxicity, and untreated depression, Shola hit rock bottom and attempted to drive his car off an overpass in Los Angeles. The guardrail held. That moment launched his mission to change the world by changing how we treat each other at work. &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; Here\u2019s what you will hear: &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; -The difference between a bad day and workplace bullying and why pattern matters &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; -A practical three-step framework for addressing toxic behavior &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; -Why \u201ckill them with kindness\u201d does not always work &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; -What leaders must start doing immediately to make work suck less &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; If you have ever worked with a bully, tolerated bad behavior, or wondered whether kindness is weakness in leadership, this episode will challenge you in the best way. &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; Connect with Shola: &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/sholarichards&quot;&amp;gt;Linkedin: Shola Richards &amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt; Podcast: The Kindness Extremist Podcast &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;If you\u2019d like quick tangible tips and practical corporate career advice to level up your authentic leadership, download the&amp;nbsp;10 simple \u201cplays\u201d to stop selling out and start standing out&amp;nbsp;at&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com\/freebie&quot;&amp;gt;https:\/\/bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com\/freebie &amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;To connect with Erin and\/or Nicole, email:&amp;nbsp;hello@bauthenticinc.com&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt;  &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;b&amp;gt;If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration!&amp;lt;\/b&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;ul&amp;gt; &amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/twitter.com\/bcausepodcast&quot;&amp;gt;Follow b Cause on Twitter (really it's mostly Nicole) &amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/erin-hatzikostas\/&quot;&amp;gt;Follow Erin on&amp;nbsp;LinkedIn &amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;or&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/erinhatzikostas\/&quot; &amp;gt;Instagram&amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/bCAUSEPodcast&quot;&amp;gt;Join the b Cause Podcast Facebook Group&amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/quiz.tryinteract.com\/#\/600ec8544ddf900016d517d1&quot;&amp;gt; Take our simple, fun and insightful&quot;What\u2019s your workplace superhero name?\u201dquiz&amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/You-Do-ish-Authentic-Superpowers\/dp\/1736376535\/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;amp;keywords=you+do+youish&amp;amp;qid=1634564333&amp;amp;sr=8-1&quot;&amp;gt;Unleash your Authentic Superpower with&amp;nbsp;Erin\u2019s book,&quot;You Do You (ish)&quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.bauthenticinc.com\/our-2-cents&quot;&amp;gt;Check out our blog for more no-BS career advice&amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.bauthenticinc.com\/authentic-programs&quot;&amp;gt;Work with Us &amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.bauthenticinc.com\/b-you-shop&quot;&amp;gt;Or just buy some fun, authentic, kick-ars merch here &amp;lt;\/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/li&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;em&amp;gt;DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences.&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/em&amp;gt; &amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;b&amp;gt;Tweetable Comments&amp;lt;\/b&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt;&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt; \u201cI had reached my capacity for accepting unkindness. I was done.\u201d &amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt; \u201cYou can\u2019t hold someone accountable to a standard that doesn\u2019t exist.\u201d &amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt; \u201cThe difference is one word: pattern.\u201d &amp;lt;li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt; \u201cHoneybees don\u2019t waste a moment of their time trying to convince houseflies that honey tastes better than shit.\u201d &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck","author_url":"http:\/\/bauthenticinc.libsyn.com\/website","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/40281050\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/200962040"}