{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"EP 528: When the Answer Is \u201cI Don\u2019t Know\u201d with Yasmine","description":"What if the most honest answer right now is\u2026 I don\u2019t know? In this thoughtful and vulnerable coaching session, Christine works with Yasmine, who is navigating uncertainty in her relationship. She deeply values the emotional connection she shares with her partner, yet finds herself triggered by his financial instability and questioning whether this is a deal breaker. Christine helps Yasmine explore something deeper than \u201cShould I stay or should I go?\u201d Instead of rushing toward certainty, they unpack the childhood programming around independence, financial security, and self-reliance that may be shaping her attraction and her fear. The conversation opens a powerful invitation: sometimes clarity doesn\u2019t come from forcing a decision \u2014 it comes from doing the inner work and tolerating the discomfort of not knowing yet. If you\u2019re in a situation where there are many positives but one lingering concern, this episode will help you understand how uncertainty can actually be a doorway to growth rather than a sign to panic.    Consider \/ Ask Yourself: Are you trying to force certainty in a situation that needs more time? Do you feel pressure to decide instead of permission to discover? Are childhood patterns influencing what feels like a \u201cdeal breaker\u201d? Do you believe you have to rely only on yourself? Is your discomfort about the present situation \u2014 or about something older being triggered?   Key Insights and A-HAs: The discomfort of \u201cI don\u2019t know\u201d often reveals deeper soul lessons. Childhood beliefs like \u201cI can only rely on myself\u201d shape adult attraction patterns. Emotional safety and financial stability are different forms of security. Pressure to decide can block the clarity we\u2019re seeking. We often project unmet childhood needs onto our partners. Uncertainty with a regulated nervous system is growth.   How to Deepen the Work: Explore the belief: \u201cI have to make it work on my own.\u201d Practice allowing support \u2014 even in small, everyday decisions. Notice when you are projecting past wounds onto your partner. Shift from asking \u201cIs this it?\u201d to \u201cWhat am I learning here?\u201d Allow yourself to sit in \u201cI don\u2019t know yet\u201d without rushing toward resolution.   Free Masterclass: Untangled Christine is teaching a free masterclass called Untangled, designed to help you rewire childhood programming and release patterns rooted in uncertainty and bracing. If you\u2019re ready to move from survival-based decision-making into conscious clarity, you can register or watch the replay at: christinehassler.com\/untangled   Social Media + Resources:  Christine Hassler \u2014 Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com \u2014 For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches! ","author_name":"Life Coaching with Christine Hassler","author_url":"http:\/\/christinehassler.com\/podcast\/","html":"