{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Why the Husband Makes or Breaks the Marriage","description":"Women file for about two-thirds of all divorces (source). But this isn't a commitment problem \u2014 it's a belief problem. In this episode, I break down why wives leave more often, why that same pattern means she's more primed to respond to genuine change than you think, and why the husband's proactive leadership is the thing that makes or breaks the marriage. Plus practical steps whether you're in separation right now or trying to prevent it. \ud83d\udd17 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet \ud83d\udd17 Peace & Control course Timestamps: 0:00 \u2014 Introduction & thesis 1:00 \u2014 The difference between men and women in marriage 2:46 \u2014 "A wife decides to leave two years before she does" 4:55 \u2014 Why women invest more in marriage improvement 6:50 \u2014 Men's problem-solving nature works against us 8:10 \u2014 The flip side: she's more primed to respond than you think 8:59 \u2014 Why the husband has more capacity to restart the marriage 10:45 \u2014 The door-knock analogy 12:39 \u2014 "Call it leadership or call it proactivity \u2014 just understand it's real" 13:14 \u2014 What about type A wives? 14:02 \u2014 What happens when nobody leads 15:31 \u2014 It's a belief problem, not a commitment problem 17:01 \u2014 What to do if you're NOT separated 17:45 \u2014 What to do if you ARE in separation 20:06 \u2014 Stop the bleeding: reactive vs. proactive behaviors 21:30 \u2014 Be easy to come back to 22:12 \u2014 Integrity vs. insecurity: two paths through separation 24:04 \u2014 Peace & Control course 25:11 \u2014 The silver lining of the statistic ","author_name":"Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce","author_url":"https:\/\/husbandhelphaven.com","html":"