{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Reigniting Desire: From Roommate Marriage to Real Intimacy with Dan Purcell","description":"You\u2019re good teammates.Good parents. But behind closed doors?Something\u2019s missing. The spark.The fire.The \u201cI can\u2019t wait to touch you\u201d energy. Most couples don\u2019t talk about sex or nobody knows how to actually talk about it. In this episode, I sit down with sex and intimacy coach Dan Purcell to talk about what\u2019s really underneath the roommate marriage phase  and why trying to \u201cget more sex\u201d is often the exact thing killing desire. We unpack: Why desire discrepancy is so common (and what it actually means) The \u201csweatpants phase\u201d and how polarity shifts over time How covert contracts and duty-based sex quietly destroy intimacy Why trying to control or convince your partner backfires How men can express sexual desire without entitlement or blame The real role nervous system regulation plays in attraction Why emotional safety is the foundation of sexual chemistry Practical, playful ways to bring novelty back into your relationship The truth? You don\u2019t improve your sex life by controlling your partner. You improve it by regulating yourself. When emotional safety increases, desire often follows. When nervous systems calm down, intimacy has room to breathe. And when conversations shift from entitlement to vulnerability, connection deepens. If  you\u2019ve been feeling rejected, frustrated, or confused about why intimacy feels harder than it used to, this episode will give you clarity and next steps. Learn more about Dan Purcell: Website: \u2060www.getyourmarriageon.com\u2060 Podcast: Get Your Marriage OnApp: Intimately Us (Available on Apple & Google Play) Have a story to share on your own healing journey or insights on self-awareness? We\u2019d love to have you as our guest, reach us at \u2060unblockyourbs.com\/podcast\u2060 \u2060 Men on a Healing Journey - Learn More and apply to join me inside of our 12 week group program just for men called Healthy Men-tality: \u2060unblockyourbs.com\/healthymen\u2060  Connect with Tara: Follow @unblockyourbs on Instagram @unblockyourbs on TikTok  Watch the episodes on YouTube Join the Self Aware Army Healing Community Book a 1:1 call with Tara FREE 5-minute Breathwork Download Get the Nervous System Reset Toolkit Apply to the Healthy Men-tality Men\u2019s Program Submit a question for an upcoming Podcast or LIVE   __________________________________________________________________________________   Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. I am not a licensed mental health professional or medical provider and cannot diagnose, treat, or prescribe medication for any condition. If you or someone you know is struggling, please ask for support from a licensed professional or contact a trusted organization in your area. In cases of crisis or emergency, please contact local authorities or a crisis hotline immediately. The views expressed in this podcast are my personal opinions and those of my guests. They are not intended to replace professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Thank you for listening responsibly. ","author_name":"Unblock Your BS","author_url":"https:\/\/www.unblockyourbs.com","html":"