{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"412: How to respectfully disagree - with Justin Jones-Fosu (ALL-STAR)","description":"  Ever been in a heated debate (or worse) an argument where you flat-out disagreed with the other person?  How did it go? How did it end? And more importantly, how is that relationship doing  after  that conversation?  Let\u2019s talk about respect today, my friend!   My all-star special guest today is author Justin Jones-Fosu and he\u2019s simplifying how to respectfully disagree, both at work and at home. As you think about the potential critical conversations that might happen today or this week ahead, I hope today\u2019s conversation gives you deeper insight on how to keep your cool, not get triggered, but equally, how to gain a deeper understanding of the other side (even if you still disagree after that), so you can maintain a strong working relationship built on dignity, being valued, and solid respect.   *NOTE: This episode originally aired on September 9th, 2024.   Here\u2019s how.&amp;nbsp;   My all-star special guest today is Justin Jones-Fosu and he\u2019s simplifying how to respectfully disagree.   We tackle and simplify all aspects of it, including:    Why he\u2019s  not a big fan of the term \u201ccivil discourse\u201d  and instead, he suggests there\u2019s  a better way to frame things so your communication  comes  from the heart.    What  \u201cgolden respect\u201d  is and how it can  help you become a better listener and communicator.    How  your earliest role models in life are the ones who\u2019ve shaped your communication style  now. He talks about his earliest memories of his mom and how  she \u201cplanted the seeds of humanity\u201d in him  that rooted his current work in respectful conversations.&amp;nbsp;    What  the 5 pillars of respectfully disagreeing  are and 1-2 practical tips that you can test out today.     Challenge your perspective    Be the student    Cultivate your curiosity    Seek the gray    Agree to respect     \u2026and ultimately,  when someone says something to you that is especially triggering  and\/or  emotionally charged  to get a rise out of you,  how to handle that situation in the best possible way,  moving forward.     Q: Are you ready to learn how to respectfully disagree? If yes, this one is for you.   It\u2019s time to #DoTheThing!   ----   Show notes available with all links mentioned here:   https:\/\/www.thesimplifiers.com\/posts\/412-how-to-respectfully-disagree---with-justin-jones-fosu-all-star ","author_name":"The Simplifiers Podcast","author_url":"http:\/\/www.thesimplifiers.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/40202445\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/40202445"}