{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Love is a marathon not a sprint","description":" It\u2019s a common myth and narrative that love hits like fireworks\u2014a single, undeniable lightning bolt moment. But for me, it was a long, often tumultuous journey of heartbreak, self-discovery, and a lot of patience that finally led me to my 'one.'   In this episode, I\u2019m getting raw and unfiltered about the decade I spent single and the 'messy growth' it took to finally be ready for the relationship I have now. I\u2019m sharing the real story of meeting my husband, from our first Hinge match to the quiet, profound moments where I realized he was different.   I\u2019m diving into: The Myth of Instant Certainty: Why waiting for a 'sign' might be blocking you from the right person.   Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck: How getting outside your comfort zone (and your apartment!) creates the serendipity needed for love to find you.   Becoming the Right Partner: The hard truths I had to face in therapy about my own 'fake confidence' and how I was actually closing myself off.   The Power of Spontaneity: Why I\u2019m learning to trade my 'recovering planner' tendencies for impromptu date nights at cozy hotel bars.   Whether you\u2019re single and feeling stuck, navigating the anxiety of a new relationship, or years into a marriage, this episode is a reminder that love is a marathon, not a sprint. It\u2019s not about the grand gestures; it\u2019s about the consistent, ordinary moments where you choose each other repeatedly.   I hope my story reminds you that your unique journey is exactly where it\u2019s supposed to be. Let\u2019s figure it out together.   Follow me on Instagram Shop by Gift Guides! ShopMy - What I\u2019m Loving Lately   ","author_name":"Figuring It Out","author_url":"http:\/\/howwelllive.libsyn.com","html":"