{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Why You Know The Destination But Fail the Journey","description":"Most men are decent at setting goals for where they want to go. Almost nobody sets goals for who they want to be on the way there. In this episode, I break down the difference between destination goals and journey goals, share my actual present-tense vision statements across six life areas, and give you a framework for writing your own \u2014 even if you're currently in separation. \ud83d\udd17 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet:  https:\/\/husbandhelphaven.com\/podcast\/destination-vs-journey-goals\/ \ud83d\udd17 Join Husband Help Group:&amp;nbsp;husbandhelphaven.com\/group Timestamps:  0:00 \u2014 Introduction 0:31 \u2014 Why separated men especially need this 2:36 \u2014 Why most men don't goal-set like they think 3:41 \u2014 &quot;I never cheated, I never hit her&quot; \u2014 why bare minimum isn't enough 4:51 \u2014 The &quot;passively decent husband&quot; trap 6:58 \u2014 The absence of intentionality 7:49 \u2014 Two types of goals: destination vs. journey 9:33 \u2014 Terry's story: what happens with only destination goals 11:30 \u2014 Vision \u2260 vision boards (the sprinter analogy) 13:33 \u2014 How I structure goals by life area 16:36 \u2014 My actual vision statements (marriage, family, faith, mind) 20:15 \u2014 The four layers of goal setting 21:45 \u2014 Husband Help Group + free one-sheet resource 23:37 \u2014 Action steps: what to do from here 26:14 \u2014 Separation-specific application 28:17 \u2014 Should you share this with your wife? 30:09 \u2014 Next episode preview  ","author_name":"Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce","author_url":"https:\/\/husbandhelphaven.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/40110165\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/198571965"}