{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"592:  4 Things That Will Destroy Their Recovery (Don't Say These)","description":"Do you have a family member\/loved one struggling with addiction? Join Our FREE WEB CLASS! https:\/\/familyreconnectprogram.com\/optin-page If someone you love is struggling with alcohol and drugs, the words you choose matter more than you think. In this video, I break down the 4 phrases that push addicts deeper into their addiction \u2014 and what you should say instead. These are the exact things my dad said to me when I was using, and I'll show you why they don't work and how to communicate in a way that actually moves the needle toward recovery. 0:00 Intro: Words That Push Addicts Away&amp;nbsp; 1:15 Phrase #1: &quot;If you loved us, you would quit&quot; 3:45 Why conditional love destroys trust 5:20 What to say instead of questioning their love 6:30 Free Monday Workshop (Register Now) 8:10 Phrase #2: &quot;You're weak - why can't you stop?&quot; 11:40 Why willpower isn't the answer 13:25 What to say instead of calling them weak 15:50 Phrase #3: Bargaining - &quot;If you do this, I'll do this&quot; 18:30 Why rewards backfire in recovery 20:15 What to say instead of negotiating 22:40 Phrase #4: &quot;I don't care anymore&quot; 25:10 Why detachment works but verbalizing doesn't 27:00 What to say when you're at your breaking point 29:30 Final thoughts: Being strategic with your words 31:45 How to get support for your situation Join my free Monday workshop: https:\/\/familyreconnectprogram.com\/optin-page 5 Mistakes Every Family Makes When Helping a Loved One with Addiction \ud83d\udcc5 Every Monday at 6:30 PM ET Need more? Want continued support and guidence for your situation? Consider our FAMILY RECONNECT PROGRAM! https:\/\/familyreconnectprogram.com\/family-reconnect Tom IG: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/realrecoverytalktom\/ Ben IG: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/realrecoverytalkben\/ RRT IG: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/realrecoverytalkpodcast\/ ","author_name":"Real Recovery Talk","author_url":"http:\/\/realrecoverytalk.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/39986290\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/39986290"}