{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"74: From Shame to Shared Values - Aligning Money Decisions in Military Marriages with Monica Kaufman","description":"Navigating finances in a military marriage often feels like walking through a minefield, where a simple conversation about a credit card bill can trigger a deep sense of emotional disconnection. In this episode of the Communicate & Connect podcast, Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky sits down with financial expert Monica Kaufman to peel back the layers of "money shame" and explore the attachment roots of our financial behaviors. We shift the focus away from spreadsheets and toward emotional safety, helping couples understand that money is simply a "tool" that often carries the weight of our childhood imprints and survival strategies. This episode provides a gentle roadmap for aligning money decisions in military marriages by helping couples stop the cycle of blame and start getting curious about their partner\u2019s "money mindset." By moving from the reactive "6-year-old self" to the intentional "adult self," you can transform financial friction into an opportunity for deeper connection and long-term security. What You\u2019ll Learn: The Psychology of Money as an Emotional Tool Childhood Imprints and the Formation of Money Mindsets Shifting from the "6-Year-Old Self" to the "Adult Self" Overcoming Shame within the Financial System Defining Wealth and Financial Freedom Building Financial Resilience in Military Families Strategies for Breaking the Cycle of Financial Blame Having Low-Stakes Financial Conversations   >>>Make sure to like, review, and subscribe to get all the future episodes and help the podcast be found by others who would benefit the most.  You can sign up for Elizabeth's FREE 10-week relationship email course here.  Read the show notes for this episode here.  ","author_name":"The Communicate & Connect Podcast for Military Relationships","author_url":"https:\/\/www.communicateandconnectpodcast.com\/","html":"