{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"#61: When Love Feels Heavier Than It Should","description":"Most people, especially women, don\u2019t wake up one day loving less. They wake up carrying more. In this episode, Diana explores a subtle but powerful shift that happens in many relationships: when love slowly moves from being chosen to being assumed. Not because anyone demanded it but because responsibility quietly accumulated. Using Matthew 11 and Galatians 6, this conversation reframes heavy love as a relational signal, not a moral failure. Love was never meant to feel crushing. When it does, something has drifted, and it\u2019s worth paying attention. You\u2019ll also be introduced to the concept of attunement, awareness with intention, and why it\u2019s essential for loving well without losing peace. This episode is not about pulling back, doing less, or judging yourself. It\u2019s about learning to notice early, before exhaustion turns into resentment or withdrawal. In this episode, you\u2019ll learn: Why love often becomes heavy without anyone doing anything \u201cwrong\u201d How responsibility quietly shifts from chosen to assumed What Scripture means when it says to carry your own load How attunement protects peace in relationships Practical questions to help you discern what is actually yours to carry Reflection questions: Is this actually mine to carry? Am I choosing this or assuming it? Is this a clear yes from the Lord, or an obligation? Love doesn\u2019t need to be withdrawn. It needs to be aligned. And when love is aligned, peace returns. LINKS: www.unveilingheirs.com www.dianabigham.com ","author_name":"Unveiling Heirs: Christian Parenting","author_url":"http:\/\/unveilingheirs.libsyn.com\/website","html":"