{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"People Pleasing Is Dangerous for Autistic & ADHD Kids: What Parents and Therapists Need to Know","description":"People Pleasing Is Dangerous for Autistic & ADHD Kids: What Parents and Therapists Need to Know People pleasing is often labeled as being kind, flexible, or mature. But for autistic and ADHD children and teens, people pleasing is often something else entirely. It\u2019s a self-protective survival strategy\u2014one rooted in fear of rejection, emotional pain, and the belief that their needs are \u201ctoo much.\u201d In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I talk about why people pleasing is especially risky for neurodivergent kids and teens, how it develops, and the early warning signs adults often miss. I also share a very real moment from my own life\u2014standing in a grocery store with no water at home, right before a major ice storm\u2014and how that moment revealed just how powerful (and dangerous) people pleasing can be, even after a year of hard work. This episode is for parents, therapists, and educators who want to support autistic and ADHD children and teens in building safety, boundaries, and self-trust\u2014without pushing them into burnout. In this episode, I cover: What people pleasing really looks like in autistic and ADHD children and teens Why people-pleasing is closely connected to masking and emotional safety Early warning signs, including over-apologizing and difficulty saying no How people pleasing is often unintentionally reinforced by adults and peers Why people pleasing increases burnout, anxiety, and vulnerability in relationships How supporting capacity and boundaries can reduce meltdowns and shutdowns If you\u2019ve ever worried that teaching boundaries might make a child \u201ctoo rigid\u201d or \u201cselfish,\u201d this episode offers a compassionate, neurodiversity-affirming reframe. \ud83c\udfa7 Listen now and share with another parent, therapist, or educator supporting autistic and ADHD kids and teens. \ud83e\udd41\ud83e\udd41\ud83e\udd41\ud83e\udd41 MORE Great information for you!  The 135 School Accommodations for Autistic & ADHD Students Guide is now available, including three detailed cases with accommodations for ONLY $27.95 What's Inside: \ud83d\udcda Academic Supports (45 accommodations) From pre-teaching strategies to assistive technology, the tools students need to access the curriculum without barriers \ud83c\udfa8 Sensory & Environmental Supports (22 accommodations) Create a learning environment where your child can focus, regulate, and engage\u2014not just survive \ud83e\udde0 Executive Functioning & Self-Advocacy (24 accommodations) Build the skills that will serve them for life\u2014organization, time management, and speaking up for their needs \ud83e\udd1d Social Supports (21 accommodations) Turn recess and group work from nightmare to opportunity with structured, supportive approaches \ud83d\udc9a Mental Health & Emotional Regulation (23 accommodations) Because learning can't happen when a child is overwhelmed, anxious, or in crisis Plus: \u2705 An example of each accommodation \u2705 3 detailed cases along with accommodations \u2705 Tips on how to identify areas of need \u2705 Free helpful education resources Don't miss this opportunity to access 135 neurodiversity-affirming accommodations for only $27.95 \u27a1\ufe0f Parents click here \u27a1\ufe0f Therapists click here \u27a1\ufe0f Educators click here Thank you for your advocacy! After you get your guide, you can also access these free resources below:) \u2b07\ufe0f \ud83c\udf1f Get your FREE "Get To Know My Child Snapshot" Parents click here, Therapists click here, Educators click here \u2b50\ufe0f Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION  Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. Therapists click here \u2b50\ufe0f Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A  Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. Parents, click here for your masterclasses  \u2764\ufe0f You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:)  Parents, come on over and join the Autism ADHD Facebook Group for Parents Therapists & educators, join the Facebook Group for professionals  Subscribe, Support & Share \ud83d\udcf1 Follow: @theautismadhdpodcast on Instagram and Facebook \ud83d\udcfa Come on over to YouTube and check out Autism ADHD TV with Holly Please leave a review! Your 5-star reviews help other families and professionals find The Autism ADHD Podcast. Thank you:) About Holly Blanc Moses Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider, and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV, and parent masterclasses.       ","author_name":"THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST","author_url":"http:\/\/www.hollyblancmoses.com\/","html":"