{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Why You Always Feel Behind (and How to Break the Cycle)","description":"If you\u2019ve ever felt like no matter how much you get done, you\u2019re still somehow behind\u2014behind in your work, behind in your life, behind where you think you should be\u2014this episode is for you. We\u2019re going to look at why that \u201cnever enough\u201d feeling shows up, how patterns like over-responsibility early in life, conditional validation, and fear-based survival wire us into always pushing and never quite feeling caught up, and how simply understanding this can start to soften the cycle you\u2019ve been stuck in.   In this episode, you will learn: Why the feeling of being \u201cbehind\u201d has so little to do with your actual productivity, and so much to do with how you learned to stay safe and valued The three core patterns that wire high-achievers into constant pressure, overdoing, and never feeling like enough How understanding where this cycle came from can start to loosen its grip, so you can relate to yourself with more compassion and less self-blame   \u2728 Remember: You are exactly where you need to be right now. \u2728   00:00 Introduction: The Never Enough Feeling 01:20 Understanding the Feeling of Being Behind 03:18 Core Patterns Leading to Overwhelm 03:32 Over Responsibility in Childhood 05:10 Conditional or Inconsistent Validation 06:13 Fear-Based Survival 07:19 Breaking the Cycle and Self-Compassion 08:52 Re-Parenting and Self-Acceptance 10:37 Conclusion and Next Steps \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 \ud83d\udc8c Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https:\/\/calmlycoping.com\/newsletter \ud83d\udcac Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https:\/\/calmlycoping.com\/message \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 Want more? \ud83d\udc69\ud83c\udffd\u200d\ud83d\udcbb Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance.  Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https:\/\/becalmwithtati.com\/work-with-me \ud83d\udc65 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/CalmlyCoping \ud83d\udcdd Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http:\/\/hfaquiz.com \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 Say hi on social: \ud83d\udd17 Website: https:\/\/becalmwithtati.com\/ \ud83d\udcf8 Instagram: https:\/\/instagram.com\/tatianaglpc \ud83d\udcbc LinkedIn: https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/tatianaglpc\/ \ud83d\udccc Pinterest: https:\/\/pinterest.com\/tatianaglpc \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014 Intro\/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http:\/\/dig.ccmixter.org\/files\/tobias_weber\/57990 Ft: Copperhead Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.   ","author_name":"Calmly Coping","author_url":"https:\/\/calmlycoping.com","html":"