{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"254. Disillusionment and Egolessness in Love","description":"Jared Hinton M.A, M.A.T, LCMHC is a psychotherapist in private practice in Asheville, NC. Jared is a husband, father, and a person in long-term recovery. His work focuses on helping individuals and couples heal from patterns of ancestral, familial, and relational trauma. Jared is a graduate of Naropa University's Contemplative and Buddhist Psychology program and a student of the Appalachian Gestalt Institute in Asheville. In this episode, Jared and I discuss how these two experiences often arrive together in long-term intimate relationships, especially after the initial romantic \u201choneymoon\u201d phase fades (usually 6 months to 3-4 years in. We discuss that disillusionment is the inevitable moment when the projection collapses. Where egolessness is relating from a place where your happiness and okayness are no longer 100% dependent on the other person\u2019s behavior, mood or validation. Connect with Jared Hinton:  Jaredhinton.org Email:jaredhintonpsychotherapy@gmail.com  Let\u2019s Talk About It! Thanks for tuning into this week\u2019s episode of Relationships! Let\u2019s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week\u2019s episode, please head over to  Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.&amp;nbsp; Check out our Guided Audio Practices and Meditations at Relationships! Let\u2019s Learn About It. You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at  Pripo\u2019s Podcast Songs. Don\u2019t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships. And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page! Theme music \u201cThese Streets\u201d provided by Adi the Monk Sound Production by Matt Carlson ","author_name":"Relationships Let's Talk About It!","author_url":"https:\/\/relationships-lets-talk-about-it-with-pripo-teplitsky-lcmhc.podsite.io\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/39777495\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/39777495"}