{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"3 Things Christians Do That Shut Down Healing After Betrayal, #593","description":"If you\u2019re trying to heal after betrayal, you may be doing everything you were taught to do\u2014and still feel stuck. Sometimes we unintentionally sabotage our own healing\u2014all in the name of love and forgiveness. Instead of feeling better, you end up feeling silenced, unsafe, and confused about why healing hasn\u2019t happened.  Author and counselor Tammy Gustafson joins Juli to share four necessary phases of healing, and three common mistakes that actually shut it down.  With clinical insight and biblical wisdom, this conversation will help you move forward with strength and hope.  Guest: Tammy Gustafson, LPC   Follow-up Resources: Preorder Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal (comes out Jan. 27) Register for The Betrayal Healing Conference, January 26-30. (It\u2019s online and free.) Take the Betrayal Healing Quiz  to find what phase of the journey you\u2019re in. Q&A: Does My Spouse Watch Porn Because of Me?  Q&A: How Do I Know if My Spouse Is Repentant After a Betrayal? Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage by Drs. Chuck and Mike Misja (for the betrayed spouse who stays in a marriage even though their spouse is not doing the work needed to heal) Follow Tammy at @tammylgustafson Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy     ","author_name":"Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex","author_url":"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/","html":"