{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"EP 524: When You Get Everything You Ask For \u2014 and a Part of You Still Wants to Run with Amy","description":"What happens when you finally attract the relationship you\u2019ve been manifesting \u2014 yet part of you feels like pulling away? In this powerful coaching session, Christine works with Amy, who has called in an emotionally attuned, stable, loving partner after six years of being single. The catch: he has two children, which had always been a non-negotiable for her. Christine helps Amy uncover how her fear isn\u2019t really about the kids \u2014 it\u2019s about control, certainty, and the vulnerability of allowing love to arrive in an unexpected package. Together, they explore how protector parts attempt to maintain safety when life doesn\u2019t unfold according to the plan, and how real love invites us out of control and into trust. If you\u2019ve ever received exactly what you wanted but still felt unsettled, this episode will help you see where fear is masquerading as intuition \u2014 and how to shift from protecting your heart to opening it.    Consider \/ Ask Yourself: Have you ever gotten what you wanted, only to feel uneasy or doubtful afterward? Do you equate safety with certainty and control? Are you focusing on what you might lose instead of what you can give? Do you feel afraid to fully say yes to something because you can\u2019t predict the outcome?   Key Insights and A-HAs: Fear often disguises itself as intuition when control feels threatened. Uncertainty is not danger \u2014 it\u2019s the doorway to love and expansion. Relationships that stretch us emotionally are invitations into abundance, not scarcity. A partner\u2019s capacity for love often expands through parenthood. You cannot love fully while keeping one foot out the door.   How to Deepen the Work: Notice when your mind jumps to \u201cwhat\u2019s next\u201d instead of being present. Ask yourself whether your concerns come from fear or from your heart. Shift from \u201cWhat am I getting?\u201d to \u201cHow can I give love here?\u201d Practice owning your yes instead of lingering in emotional hesitation. Allow yourself to experience love without guarantees.   Couples Retreat with Christine & Stef Christine and Stef are hosting a small, high-touch Couples Retreat in San Diego, April 15\u201318. Space is limited to only 5\u20138 couples for a deeply intimate experience. To learn more, email assist@christinehassler.com.   Social Media + Resources:  Christine Hassler \u2014 Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com \u2014 For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches! ","author_name":"Life Coaching with Christine Hassler","author_url":"http:\/\/christinehassler.com\/podcast\/","html":"