{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Ep. 324 - What your ex hated about you might be the reason your next relationship works","description":"If you\u2019re spiraling about dating after your breakup, convinced there\u2019s no one out there for you, replaying every fight you had, and quietly wondering if the things your ex disliked about you mean you\u2019re asking for too much, this episode is for you. We\u2019re unpacking why the exact issue you used to argue about in your last relationship might not be a flaw at all, but a signal of misalignment, and why that same trait could become the foundation of real connection in your next relationship. You\u2019ll learn how incompatibility gets mistaken for unworthiness, why your brain keeps turning past arguments into evidence against your future, and how to stop shrinking yourself to feel chosen. This episode will help you see your desires clearly again. Not as liabilities, but as clues and restore hope that the right relationship won\u2019t require you to change who you are, only to be more of it. Check out our free breakup clinic (go beyond your breakup to build your bigger and better life): https:\/\/dorothyabjohnson.com\/breakupclinic\/ ","author_name":"How to Get Over Your Ex","author_url":"https:\/\/dorothyabjohnson.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/39694905\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/39694905"}