{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 402 - Sexual Simmering","description":"Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you \u201ccheck off,\u201d followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I\u2019m inviting you to consider a different way of relating to your sexuality that doesn\u2019t require pressure, performance, or forcing yourself to feel desire. The idea is called \u201csimmering\u201d and I will explain how staying gently connected to your sexual self between encounters can make sex feel easier, more natural, and more mutual. We\u2019ll talk about how anticipation and awareness create desire over time, especially if you\u2019re the lower desire partner. If you want sex to feel less like a mountain to climb and more like something you can ease into, this episode will help you see what\u2019s been missing and how to change it. ","author_name":"Sex for Saints","author_url":"http:\/\/amandalouder.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/39575960\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/39575960"}